Thread: The final goodby from my end

It's been a little more than two months of my seperation a lot has happened since then learned he moved to his lovers house, he bought a new truck, he sure seems happy. He came back to my house talking about his quarrels with his lover. I found a new apartment but was still in limbo about his dog and the old house we lived in. So yesterday, I finally told him that as of Friday i was no longer going to stay at the house under his lease, and that his dog was going to be alone at the house so he needed to pick him up, pick up the remainder of his stuff from the house and get it ready to give it back to the owner. I told him I found a place and will not be going back to the old house and his keys will be left in the house. he asked me " are you ok", "is it a nice place" several times I told him take care of the dog he is a good dog. he replied with coldness he better behave, I told him he is a good dog all he needs is love and attention. He asked me if I was able to take my two small dogs I told him yes. I told him I will be okay as he asked me several times if i was okay. Then his final words to me were is the gas and electricity current. I said yes, he said then I can close it i said yes. then I said goodbye and hanged up. During the whole conversation he showed no signs of care just wanted to clear his conscious. Fifteen years and he showed no signs of care.

I know this hurts now...you did the right thing...he left you to be "happy" with someone else, it's NOT OK for him to bring his quarrels to you.

Keep your eyes ahead, don't look back...there is someone who will love and care for you just around the corner, when you least expect it. Get through your emotions so you can be open for that someone special to come to you...