Thread: My fiance wants to have sex with other people

So you can't orgasm, he gave up trying, and so he wants to get out there and get himself some, and imagine, the woman who does orgasm with him, will he go back to her for more? Will there therefore, be an affair?

Agreements, agreements....Guess that's why he's a fiance and not husband, (on paper), cause then he would have to agree to be faithful for ever more.

He IS NOT your friend anymore, he is the father of your children, he is your man and your asking for a disaster to happen. You can't possibly view him as a "friend" "with benefits" because that is the way this is playing out. He is your friend, gives you benefits but not committed.

He might as well take a break from you, get his rocks off, see if the grass is greener sexually and then come back and be done with it.

For a guy who never let you have male friends, who was "over jealous", stating you can sleep with other men too, is rubbish... You are correct, he doesn't expect you to and yet your last paragraph comes across as your already planning to seek...

You guys need to read, look, google, all sorts about sex and then try different things "together", I bet if you let your hair down after a while you would have an orgasm and I bet all of this would not then be required.

Yep, that's my "opinion" as to why he wants to play the field....

I have no doubt he loves you, but he has an in-secure personality, he "used" to get jealous, and so he is in-secure about what he can't achieve with you, or make you achieve more to the point..

This to me is his problem, the problem and why he wants to stray.

Make a pack on working on this issue first and find each other's bodies properly and then see if he wants to do this.

Your heading for a dangerous territory otherwise.

CW