Thread: Sadness and missing him

Sweets,

Dont worry, if you want to forget him think what bad he did to you. Its difficult to hate someone you once loved so much but you have to be bit selfish here. Try and be with your friends who dont like him and who will talk bad about him. Dont ever do a mistake to get closer to another man to come over past relationship. Do you think he was worth who just forgot 15 years in few months time. You dont have to congratulate him because did he bother to turn to ask you, how are you doing? You know women are strongest, their strength is their self respect and emotion. Try and engrossed your self in some post graduate course/dancing class because music can sway you away. Come out of the place and go on a long vacation. Might be things were not meant to be.The man who can leave you for no faults can even leave that woman. You can not count on such men.Take Care

I think a 15 year relationship needs to be grieved and I think you are grieving. It's OK. It's OK to be sad, it's OK to miss him, it's all OK. Cry. It is an honest emotion that there is nothing wrong with expressing, besides, it sounds like you need to.

There is no point in trying to work out his motivations or what anything meant to him / still means to him because it will not change your current situation.

You do need to move on, find things to occupy your time - maybe do stuff that you used to like to do before you were with him but that stopped because he wasn't so keen. But don't feel bad about grieving the relationship. It's only been a few months - you're still healing. You will be fine, and in the meantime if you are not fine that's perfectly OK.