Thread: My Husband and PPL He Slept with.

You should stop him for his behavior.. he's a married man supposedly not going everywhere especially girls room especially his ex.. what is he thinking ? think you're a follower and just go along with the flow.. or you could try what's doing.. meet an ex of yours and talk in a public place and call him.. introduce your x to him.. hehehe.. tell him, you miss the talk..if he will angry, tell him what exactly he is doing.. if he shows nothing concern, so maybe something wrong with the relationship...

1. Why is he putting himself in situations to be around these women?

2. Why is he telling you about the stupid stupid things he says to them?

Telling you the long stroke comment, do you know the other people that were in the room when he said it? Did he maybe worry they would tell you what he said so he told you first to save face? If you don't know them and wouldn't have heard it , he was awful insensitive to tell you that for no gain... and also just weird to say in the first place to make her bf jealous.

Why would he want her bf jealous? Why would care about that? He sounds so childish and immature, needy for attention and downright mean.

Does he do any of this stuff in front of you? Where are you when he is out with these friends and why does he have so much free time to just cruise around visiting friends all the time? Does he work? Does he spend quality time with you?

Yes, I'll have to agree with everyone when you guys say its down right mean. I get the impression that when he told me, he said it in a manner as if it was ok, or like he saw nothing wrong with it. I highly doubt that he said it cause of scared-ness, cause i highly doubt the ppl in the house would of told me anything anyways. they have no clue about marrige let alone feelings lol ( so sadd but true) .....He just told me like it was a regular conversation (what pissed me off more when he told me was ......."If i had to do it again i would, not a biggie"). And guys...... i know that there are worse things.. like him cheating......... or hitting me.......... but the reason I posted this for help or advice was because it was that very inccident that has made me so insecure and confused....
I have no clue why he gets himself in situations where he's alone with his ex....... it makes no sense to me. But i guess that's what i get for living in a small town where he "Got around"......... its inevitable that i will run into someone he had some type of sexual relation with.
I held in my anger and jelousy for a long time. then one night during one of our lovely big arguements i came out with how i felt about the incident. he sat there and listened to what i had to say. I cried, he said sorry. End of the convo. But even though he listened and said sorry after seeing me cry. Something still doesnt feel right. I havent been the same. I'm always scared.
and normally our relationship is great (now-a-days lol. it us to be rocky) But I still struggle with-in myself, if that makes sense???? I don't need therapy do I???? Maibe I just need to chill, and let time take its course.
THank you guys for your support.........