Thread: what are the signs of cheating?????

my boyfriend owns a motorcycle shop and all he does is work so he can provided for us. We started a new business and had a baby, moved to a new state in all one shot. in april the 10th i went to see his mother in baton rouge for two wks. but before i left i counted the condoms because i have had other men cheat on me. but before i left he went to lunch with this girl named heidi and i seen him get out of her car. i said whats this he said that she came into the shop and he was hunger and i said why didn't you take your truck he said that rick dean had his truck, which rick dean did have his truck. But i dont know why he just didn't take a motorcycle to the place that they were going to. then i left to go to his mother's and when i came back and looked at the phone bill this heidi was calling him i called him asked him why this ing ing was calling him, he said what i said heidi.said that his friend was doing some air coniditon units in her condo and that his phone was ing up. i said that i didn't care that i better not find out that she calling and texting. he said that he wont let any of his friends use his phone again and i guess that he told his friend to tell heidi not to call or text. and when i came back she went out of town and he didn't get no phone calls or text. i asked him if he wanted to be with someone else he said know that if he wanted to be with someone else that he would, he also said that if he wanted to cheat he could any time but he said that he wants to be with be and our 7 month old and i have talked to a few people about this and they said that all he talks about is how much he loves me and that they haven't seen him with any girls at the bar. also his mom said that all he talks about is how much he loves me. please give me advice on what to do.

Play it quieter.
See and don't say anything.
If she calls back, don't say anything...let him
tell you. Give it time.

Either it was nothing that might have become
something, or was really nothing.

I been living with my boyfriend since 2003 and lately things have changed. Staying out late coming home until the next day. Its just so frustrating knowing that he can be out there with another woman. I mean what else would he be doing right. I don't know whether to just back to my old home where I used to be close to family. I am far from any relatives right now. And I have no one to talk to about what I am going through. I hate this I am so sad. My little girl sometimes asks me where her father is at night.
Its so frustrating not be able to speak to anyone about whats going on at home. I just stay up crying at night I don't know what to do even If i treat him well he still takes off and spends all night out.

Signs of cheating is you figure out he is lying.....then you figure out he is lying almost all of the time. Then you figure out it is all just a fun little game he is playing.
My twins are 14. I left their father the first time when the twins were infants because I found out he had another woman-(She asked me my name, I told her it was Sue)
Flashforward 14 years---the guy comes back to me, tells me he learned his lesson a long time ago, says he would never cheat on me again (said it wouldn't feel right in his head). Said all the blah, blah, blah stuff that sounds good to a woman, words like forever and love and family and beautiful....I take him back and guess what???? He has a new other woman and is living with her. Hello?

CHEATERS ARE LIARS-
CHEATERS LIKE TO CHEAT- YOU WILL GET OVER HIM IF YOU LEAVE HIM-BUT DON'T GO BACK BECAUSE HE JUST MAY CHEAT ON YOU AGAIN, even if the first time was a long time ago and he said he learned his lesson.

Men are dogs-
Women are cute little bunnies.