Text messaging

KIKI2009 · 08-05-2009, 10:14 AM

My husband recently found out that another man has been text messaging me. I never had sex with the man or kissed him or anything. My husband went into my phone and saw them. Now he is threatening to leave me and is saying he is going to take my daughter away for adultery. But i didnt have sex with this man. Can he take away my daughter if we do get a divorce?

**WildChild** · 08-05-2009, 11:08 AM

Depends on the laws in your state. Why were you doing this?

**OhThereYouAre** · 08-05-2009, 01:36 PM

You should evaluate the consequences of infidelity very carefully before handing out your number.

**stressed** · 08-05-2009, 03:06 PM

Why were you keeping this texts from him and how do you feel about this other man? There isn't only physical cheating, emotional cheating can hurt as much. If you want your husband then get rid of this other man and if your husband is understanding then things can work out again. Right now he's angry and hurt so of course he will threaten you with divorce and such. But give him some time to think thing over and try to discuss this as calmly as possible.

08-05-2009, 10:14 AM	#1
KIKI2009 Junior Member Join Date: Aug 2009 Posts: 1	Text messaging My husband recently found out that another man has been text messaging me. I never had sex with the man or kissed him or anything. My husband went into my phone and saw them. Now he is threatening to leave me and is saying he is going to take my daughter away for adultery. But i didnt have sex with this man. Can he take away my daughter if we do get a divorce?

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08-05-2009, 11:08 AM	#2
WildChild Gold Contributor 500+ Posts Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: Western USA Posts: 6,232 Blog Entries: 5	Depends on the laws in your state. Why were you doing this?

08-05-2009, 01:36 PM	#3
OhThereYouAre Gold Contributor 500+ Posts Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: Cincinnati Posts: 1,302	You should evaluate the consequences of infidelity very carefully before handing out your number.

08-05-2009, 03:06 PM	#4
stressed Silver Contributor 100+ Posts Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: Europe Posts: 147	Why were you keeping this texts from him and how do you feel about this other man? There isn't only physical cheating, emotional cheating can hurt as much. If you want your husband then get rid of this other man and if your husband is understanding then things can work out again. Right now he's angry and hurt so of course he will threaten you with divorce and such. But give him some time to think thing over and try to discuss this as calmly as possible.