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Reply With QuoteYES! Now THAT is being proactive!Originally Posted by CHANDLERS WISH
YES! Now THAT is being proactive!
Thanks for all your feed back but, does no one else think that this was a bit selfish on his part? He likes to live by the rule" if it just doesn`t suit right now dont do it" I feel like this was a case where going on vaca. did not suit this family. Would be different if it was a weekend but, a freakin week, where I have no kind of break...I would never do that to him( even if he said it was ok) I consider everyone elses ffeeling too. And not to mention I would not want to be away from my baby that long at this age. C`mon ladies...really? No one see my side???
It's not that we can't or don't see your side of things, but you told him to go, right? If you didn't want him to go, you should have told him. You can't beat around the bush with communication in a relationship. You need to be honest with him. Then if you really communicate with him, let him know how you are really feeling, tell him "No, I don't want you to go, it's too rough on me with the baby, etc." Then if he goes, that's a different issue.
As a mom, you are entitled to breaks too. Trust me, it's hard, I know. Sometimes, you have to force yourself to have a break. Take it, you deserve it. My oldest was 2 years old before I spent even 1 night away from him, I drove my mother mad by calling every 45 minutes. After that first night, she stopped answering her phone.But that was my doing, I never would have forced that on my husband by saying he couldn't go hunting with his dad for a week or backpacking with his friends. They view things a little differently. It's okay. Don't resent him for it, it won't do either of you any good.
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May the fleas of a thousand camels infest the crotch of the person who screws up your day and may their arms be too short to scratch.
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Whoever said anything was possible obviously never tried slamming a revolving door.
Sorry, I totally agree with all we've said, and LanaBear's last response re-inforcing that.
Nothing therefore, to add...
CW
Do we not realise that in order to find a soul
It doesn't happen over night
if truth were to be told.
Like everything in life that's hard to achieve
you must believe!
Ok, so theres some more problems here,and especially 6 months, gosh I would dump everything and just go, theres more to why you, didnt go wth him..You could have gone, given him the baby and had a s wm and gne shopping. Are you coping with the little one?? doesnt sound like you are, nothing is so important than the 2 f you, after all thats what made the 3 of you..
Go fix this, and put the love and talking back nto the relaionship..You pushed him away..
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