Thread: My husband is cruel

Originally Posted by Hopeless Dork

I disagree. The scars from the pain of emotional abuse can burn as deep or deeper than physical and don't fade any easier.

I've seen this with several of my girlfriends and believe this true.

Sally: I've very sorry to hear of you having to go through this. Nobody should have to take any kind of abuse, ever! I've no more knowledge than anyone else here about your situation but it sounds to me like maybe there's another woman or sugarmomma somewhere. I don't know but it's what I would suspect if I started getting this kind of stuff from my hubby.

You really should get some professional advice and though I don't hold much for divorce (I find too many people over here take that easy way out) in this kind of case I think it's justified. Abuse is abuse and even though bruises heel, words and looks from loved ones often never go away so easily.

All the best to you. *hug*


Miya

cw well said/she must focus on herself. Your self worth is how you measure your own worth. part of being with someone is enjoying the togetherness u both share. Even apart of having kids together. If he is so focused on his trips away from you, that is basically the first sign he'd rather be spending time away...cough selfish cough I am talking from experience as my marraige is also not physical, though we find time to spend together with family and friends i must say i can relate.
Most men that are verbally abusive use those words so that you wont fight back but retreat into your room and let them go on their merry way. You must ask yourself is the financial situation holding you there? Can you file for divorce and make it on yor own. Think about it, but most of all you must find your own happiness, its ovious its not with him.