Thread: Should I worry about my best friend?

I honestly wouldn't worry to much about it. You are engaged for a reason right? I think he did what he felt you were doing to him. why should you be upset at him dancing when you were dancing with someone else. Granted you may not have been grinding but now days, it seems thats the normal club dancing. I tell my friends all the time how great there man is and yes I even said it when I was single. doesn't mean I wanted them. Now if she makes comments about how cute he is then thats a bit different. My best friend and I went out to a bar and me and her man danced together. wasn't a big deal.

Oh I'd worry about her, alright. She's already made it clear to you she finds him attractive. She's shown you know that she will take advantage of the situation if he is upset with you. She could have comforted him and told him not to worry about that guy if she was your BEST FRIEND... not took him out and grinded on him.

Chris rock said it best in one of his acts...something to the effect of when a man see's one of his friends with an awesome girlfriend they will say 'wow, she is so cool... i gotta get me a girl LIKE her'. when a woman see's one of her friends with an awesome boyfriend they will say 'wow, he's so cool... I gotta get HIM.'

I hate to say it ladies, but some of the female species are quite shady, and all's fair in love & war to many of them. I'd not cut her off entirely... but I sure wouldn't put them in a position to be alone often.

Originally Posted by Hopeless Dork

Oh I'd worry about her, alright. She's already made it clear to you she finds him attractive. She's shown you know that she will take advantage of the situation if he is upset with you. She could have comforted him and told him not to worry about that guy if she was your BEST FRIEND... not took him out and grinded on him.

Chris rock said it best in one of his acts...something to the effect of when a man see's one of his friends with an awesome girlfriend they will say 'wow, she is so cool... i gotta get me a girl LIKE her'. when a woman see's one of her friends with an awesome boyfriend they will say 'wow, he's so cool... I gotta get HIM.'

I hate to say it ladies, but some of the female species are quite shady, and all's fair in love & war to many of them. I'd not cut her off entirely... but I sure wouldn't put them in a position to be alone often.

Oh my god! I was JUST thinking of that exact quote, hahaha. And it's crazy how true it is. Women these days are so competitive, and it doesn't seem to matter who they're competing with. Actually, it seems to be worse when it's between friends. For some reason, girls just want to make everyone jealous of them and go to some crazy extremes to do it. This is why I only have a select handful of female friends, I never see this kind of drama with the guys I'm friends with.

It would be one thing if your friend sat with your fiance to keep him company, or was like "Don't worry about it. Let's grab a beer at the bar and wait for her" or something to that effect. It's even one thing to just dance with him a little so that he'll feel better. But to be full on grinding is a complete other thing. It's basically dry humping on a dance floor. You have every reason to feel uncomfortable. Obviously your fiance was just doing it to give you a taste of your own medicine type thing, but she sounds shady to me. The dancing combined with the comments she's made is even making alarms go off for me.

I do agree with Kally that I'll let my friends know when they have a good guy. I like to give my approval if they want it. But I won't go on about how hot they are or anything like that, single or not. If it will make you feel better to confront her, then do it, but don't come at her like a bat out of h&ll or anything. If it sounds like you're accusing her of something, it will just put her on the defensive and it won't do any good.