Thread: We've Talked About It..Now Its Happenin..

My boyfriend..Fiance now..Purposed..Haha..Well somewhat..Has asked me and in his own corny way took the ring I had on my finger off and on again when he asked...

....Great thing is I asked him to ask my Dad for his permission, I'm a major daddys girl so I felt he should and I should. He's goin to wait until my dad visits again from the Ukraine, I've e-mailed him and as far as I know he isn't objecting but isn't approvin. Stuck in the middle...

.......We're plannin things out because though I want his approval and I'll wait no matter what its going to happen. There isn't goin to be a ceremony right away. We can't afford it and thats fine, and right now he can't afford a proper ring but it isn't about the material things. Its just wanting to be together. We are going to wait a long while to have kids, going on birth control! We need to get things together as a married couple before we can support another person...

I've talked to him about finances and such, thats my main concern, He's a big family helper and I love him for that but I told him when we become one he'll have to cut back a little. Only if its a need be situation, I feel like a but I'm thinkin about us and our future and how we will get along...

November is when we are plannin to wed. I'm vey excited..I don't like admitting it but thinkin of startin a life with hiim gives me butterflies..He's helped me change for the better..I love him.