Spoiling your Man

**AloneNtheCrowd** · 10-02-2009, 11:16 AM

Ok, after reading a lot of post I started wondering what kinds of things do Wives/Fiances/GFs normally do for their SOs out of love, to make them happy or to show there affection, etc.... From everyday stuff, to the extreme, or in bed and everything inbetween.... I know everyone's diferent but I just want to get a general idea from comparing what some of you ladies do or have done.....

**Little** · 10-02-2009, 12:18 PM

I cleaned out his utterly disgusting car last night ^_^ There were 10 glasses/cups in there, seriously. I didn't tell him I was going to do it ... I just showed up to pick him up from work (my truck is out of commission so we're sharing) with this nice clean car!
In bed, that's classified, hehe. But let's just say on our days off I go all-out

**OhThereYouAre** · 10-02-2009, 12:46 PM

It's the little things that I really appreciate.

For example - my dad came in town last night from cali, and even though she's had long nights at work this week, she got up early yesterday (before me, which is tough!) to make sure that the guest bedroom was neatly arranged and ready to go for him.

**Kallygirlie** · 10-02-2009, 01:22 PM

It really depends. The one thing I do the most is make sure he gets fed before he goes to work (I'm only home from work and hr before he leaves for work) and then I pack him lunch. I'll take showers with him when I'm off work and was his body (non sexually), he loves that. Of course the normal back rubs and yes I'll even do a foot rub if he needs it. And every once in a while I'll buy him some flowers. some guys like them, some dont. My man appriciated the thought and is amazed how I find some of the colors I find like lime green or bright orange. they are always manly, never "pretty".

**WildChild** · 10-02-2009, 05:53 PM

Long massages at least once a week. He does hard physical work and really needs it. Bake favorite cookies or occasional treats
BJs pretty regularly

**happy ending** · 10-02-2009, 10:13 PM

when he's here i give him all over massages, every day, cause he loves it, make his favourite food, his top favourite however is scratching his head or back until he goes to sleep. he tries to stay awake to prolong it, but it never works LOL.

**CHANDLERS WISH** · 10-03-2009, 02:43 AM

See, everyday stuff and extreme, it still seems to be "pfttt", not at that time, but later down the track, it seems to be, and? What have you done back for me? lol..

Mmmm.. thinking ex-husband what else have I got to compare?

Cleaned the whole house, made a dining room, candles, cooked... and candles in his bathroom, when we first met..... nice...

Really wanted a motor bike (extreme) bought him one $5k... He was totally shocked, no one had ever done anything like that, it was great. Until ready? 2 months later, I get a call, "um want to trade it in for this $10k bike", ok... So then doesn't sells his bike and keeps the cash. WT? Half at least thanks.

I had better stop there, cause I believe past is best left in the past or you can't get on with your future, lol.

CW

**noor** · 10-03-2009, 07:50 AM

I cook for him, clean his place & whenever we fight I always make it up with him. I wear colors which he likes, make my hairstyle the way he likes. I respect his family, call up and talk to them.

The way to a man's heart is through his stomach. This is a saying in India. I mean it's not necessary that you should always cook something special but try to feed him on time & then speak about your problems.

**WildChild** · 10-03-2009, 08:55 AM

LOL Can't remember where I heard it:
The way to a man's heart isn't his stomach but down a bit further

**LanaBear** · 10-03-2009, 12:33 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by WildChild

LOL Can't remember where I heard it:
The way to a man's heart isn't his stomach but down a bit further

haha - I've heard that too. Cute.

10-02-2009, 11:16 AM	#1
AloneNtheCrowd VIP Member Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: South Carolina Posts: 64	Spoiling your Man Ok, after reading a lot of post I started wondering what kinds of things do Wives/Fiances/GFs normally do for their SOs out of love, to make them happy or to show there affection, etc.... From everyday stuff, to the extreme, or in bed and everything inbetween.... I know everyone's diferent but I just want to get a general idea from comparing what some of you ladies do or have done.....

10-02-2009, 12:18 PM	#2
Little WH Junior Administrator Join Date: Feb 2007 Location: whjuniorad[at]hotmail[dot]com Posts: 1,559 Blog Entries: 4	I cleaned out his utterly disgusting car last night ^_^ There were 10 glasses/cups in there, seriously. I didn't tell him I was going to do it ... I just showed up to pick him up from work (my truck is out of commission so we're sharing) with this nice clean car! In bed, that's classified, hehe. But let's just say on our days off I go all-out __________________ Register! \| Rules/FAQ \| Contact Admin

10-02-2009, 12:46 PM	#3
OhThereYouAre Gold Contributor 500+ Posts Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: Cincinnati Posts: 1,302	It's the little things that I really appreciate. For example - my dad came in town last night from cali, and even though she's had long nights at work this week, she got up early yesterday (before me, which is tough!) to make sure that the guest bedroom was neatly arranged and ready to go for him. __________________ 'If you think you can or you can't, you're probably right..." "It is discouraging how many people are shocked by honesty and how few by deceit..." "People who lack the sense to question Big Lies always end up in deep trouble..." "I don't worry about pointing fingers in the past...i operate under the assumption that every saint has a past and every sinner has a future..." "Build the life you want and then find someone to share it with, someone who fits where you are and where you are going..."

10-02-2009, 01:22 PM	#4
Kallygirlie Silver Contributor 100+ Posts Simon Champion! Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: PA, USA Posts: 367	It really depends. The one thing I do the most is make sure he gets fed before he goes to work (I'm only home from work and hr before he leaves for work) and then I pack him lunch. I'll take showers with him when I'm off work and was his body (non sexually), he loves that. Of course the normal back rubs and yes I'll even do a foot rub if he needs it. And every once in a while I'll buy him some flowers. some guys like them, some dont. My man appriciated the thought and is amazed how I find some of the colors I find like lime green or bright orange. they are always manly, never "pretty". __________________ Krystal

10-02-2009, 05:53 PM	#5
WildChild Gold Contributor 500+ Posts Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: Western USA Posts: 6,223 Blog Entries: 5	Long massages at least once a week. He does hard physical work and really needs it. Bake favorite cookies or occasional treats BJs pretty regularly __________________ We can only learn to love by loving. Iris Mudoch, British writer

10-02-2009, 10:13 PM	#6
happy ending Gold Contributor 500+ Posts Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: western australia Posts: 655	when he's here i give him all over massages, every day, cause he loves it, make his favourite food, his top favourite however is scratching his head or back until he goes to sleep. he tries to stay awake to prolong it, but it never works LOL.

10-03-2009, 02:43 AM	#7
CHANDLERS WISH WH Moderator Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: Australia Posts: 9,897 Blog Entries: 7	See, everyday stuff and extreme, it still seems to be "pfttt", not at that time, but later down the track, it seems to be, and? What have you done back for me? lol.. Mmmm.. thinking ex-husband what else have I got to compare? Cleaned the whole house, made a dining room, candles, cooked... and candles in his bathroom, when we first met..... nice... Really wanted a motor bike (extreme) bought him one $5k... He was totally shocked, no one had ever done anything like that, it was great. Until ready? 2 months later, I get a call, "um want to trade it in for this $10k bike", ok... So then doesn't sells his bike and keeps the cash. WT? Half at least thanks. I had better stop there, cause I believe past is best left in the past or you can't get on with your future, lol. CW __________________ Do we not realise that in order to find a soul It doesn't happen over night if truth were to be told Like everything in life that's hard to achieve you must believe! Register! \| Rules/FAQ \| Contact Mod

10-03-2009, 07:50 AM	#8
noor VIP Member Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: Dubai,UAE Posts: 56	I cook for him, clean his place & whenever we fight I always make it up with him. I wear colors which he likes, make my hairstyle the way he likes. I respect his family, call up and talk to them. The way to a man's heart is through his stomach. This is a saying in India. I mean it's not necessary that you should always cook something special but try to feed him on time & then speak about your problems. __________________ There are moments in life which get etched in memory & there are those wonderful people who never leave your heart.

10-03-2009, 08:55 AM	#9
WildChild Gold Contributor 500+ Posts Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: Western USA Posts: 6,223 Blog Entries: 5	LOL Can't remember where I heard it: The way to a man's heart isn't his stomach but down a bit further __________________ We can only learn to love by loving. Iris Mudoch, British writer

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