Thread: Future Mother in law issue...

My fiance and I have spent so much time figuring out what to do with the situation...We finally agreed that he would go visit his mom alone and lay everything out for her. He told her how much stress she has put on what is supposed to be the happiest day of our lives. He told her how she hurt me as well. Most importantly, he told her that all those people are invited, and they will NOT be uninvited. He also said that she isnt the one that is paying for the catering so its really not her choice. And in the end, she said that she had over reacted, and she would be there no matter what, but she still seems out of sorts over the whole thing. I think it will take time for her to get back to normal. I just hate that she would put so much negativity on our wedding and have us stress like that...You guys all made me feel so much better knowing that I wasnt crazy!! Thank you so much for your support! Like you guys said, I told my fiance that if he gives into her now on a decision that should be ours, and ours alone, then we will be letting her control the rest of our lives in one way or another...He just stood by me 100% and I think his mom has to realize that he is going to have another woman in his life now, so she cant make his decisions for him.