What kind of men do women really want? - Page 2

**caterpillar79** · 10-25-2009, 06:42 PM

Mispelled her name: it's RORI RAYE

**WildChild** · 10-25-2009, 06:56 PM

Glad you got one in there. Do you find that some of the women just echo the men though? I've noticed it with some.

**caterpillar79** · 10-25-2009, 07:00 PM

I listened to one of her interviews and she actually was explaining how (most) women feel and why they feel that way. She was telling all these nuggets to David DeAngelo infront of an all male audience. It amazed me at how it made an impact on my fiance's mind set about women. He appears to be better equipped in dealing with my whims and "female issues".

And yes, there are some female coaches/therapists who just echo male viewpoints. Maybe, on that matter...whatever works, we'll find out.

**WildChild** · 10-25-2009, 07:05 PM

You just have to keep exploring because what works for one couple might or might not for another.

**caterpillar79** · 10-26-2009, 07:35 AM

You're right, WC.

I wonder how many women would actually want to "have" this kind of man rolled into one though - or at least some combinations of it. (I know it sounds impossible)...Oh, men...

**OhThereYouAre** · 10-26-2009, 07:47 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by caterpillar79

Lucky enough, WC, my fiance is doing that - one reason why I accepted his proposal. He reads books and listens to interviews that are geared towards having him understand women. I am seeing dramatic changes in his ways (which I hope to be consistent)...and on my part, I have been doing that also for the last two months of our break.

Like you said, I am growing and exploring, and so is he. Now, we've decided to do all of these explorations together, for better or for worse.

Did I read that correctly? Your fiance and yourself are taking a "break?"

**caterpillar79** · 10-26-2009, 07:50 AM

That's a WAS....we break up two months ago - he hasn't proposed that time yet. Now we're back together, he proposed, and we're shooting to be married in 6 months or earlier.

**caterpillar79** · 10-26-2009, 07:51 AM

* broke up

**blondie80** · 10-26-2009, 04:45 PM

I think most women would be happy with one or two of those aspects of men lol, though most I have come across which caterpillar mentioned was understanding womens whims and female issues, it makes it all sound so general but from reading all these forums at times i think we all have them!
You and wildchild are both right if men took a little time to try and understand us or even half of the time we spend trying to understand them it would be alot easier for all of us.

Brian · 10-27-2009, 12:13 PM

I like a woman with boobies.

10-25-2009, 06:42 PM	#11
caterpillar79 Gold Contributor 500+ Posts Join Date: Mar 2009 Location: MidWest, USA Posts: 1,379 Blog Entries: 52	Mispelled her name: it's RORI RAYE __________________ Life is not about waiting for the storm to pass, but learning how to dance in the rain.

10-25-2009, 06:56 PM	#12
WildChild Gold Contributor 500+ Posts Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: Western USA Posts: 6,230 Blog Entries: 5	Glad you got one in there. Do you find that some of the women just echo the men though? I've noticed it with some. __________________ We can only learn to love by loving. Iris Mudoch, British writer

10-25-2009, 07:00 PM	#13
caterpillar79 Gold Contributor 500+ Posts Join Date: Mar 2009 Location: MidWest, USA Posts: 1,379 Blog Entries: 52	I listened to one of her interviews and she actually was explaining how (most) women feel and why they feel that way. She was telling all these nuggets to David DeAngelo infront of an all male audience. It amazed me at how it made an impact on my fiance's mind set about women. He appears to be better equipped in dealing with my whims and "female issues". And yes, there are some female coaches/therapists who just echo male viewpoints. Maybe, on that matter...whatever works, we'll find out. __________________ Life is not about waiting for the storm to pass, but learning how to dance in the rain.

10-25-2009, 07:05 PM	#14
WildChild Gold Contributor 500+ Posts Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: Western USA Posts: 6,230 Blog Entries: 5	You just have to keep exploring because what works for one couple might or might not for another. __________________ We can only learn to love by loving. Iris Mudoch, British writer

10-26-2009, 07:35 AM	#15
caterpillar79 Gold Contributor 500+ Posts Join Date: Mar 2009 Location: MidWest, USA Posts: 1,379 Blog Entries: 52	You're right, WC. I wonder how many women would actually want to "have" this kind of man rolled into one though - or at least some combinations of it. (I know it sounds impossible)...Oh, men... __________________ Life is not about waiting for the storm to pass, but learning how to dance in the rain.

10-26-2009, 07:50 AM	#17
caterpillar79 Gold Contributor 500+ Posts Join Date: Mar 2009 Location: MidWest, USA Posts: 1,379 Blog Entries: 52	That's a WAS....we break up two months ago - he hasn't proposed that time yet. Now we're back together, he proposed, and we're shooting to be married in 6 months or earlier. __________________ Life is not about waiting for the storm to pass, but learning how to dance in the rain.

10-26-2009, 07:51 AM	#18
caterpillar79 Gold Contributor 500+ Posts Join Date: Mar 2009 Location: MidWest, USA Posts: 1,379 Blog Entries: 52	* broke up __________________ Life is not about waiting for the storm to pass, but learning how to dance in the rain.

10-26-2009, 04:45 PM	#19
blondie80 Silver Contributor 100+ Posts Join Date: Apr 2009 Location: Australia Posts: 119	I think most women would be happy with one or two of those aspects of men lol, though most I have come across which caterpillar mentioned was understanding womens whims and female issues, it makes it all sound so general but from reading all these forums at times i think we all have them! You and wildchild are both right if men took a little time to try and understand us or even half of the time we spend trying to understand them it would be alot easier for all of us.

10-27-2009, 12:13 PM	#20
Brian Banned from WH Join Date: Oct 2009 Posts: 20	I like a woman with boobies.

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