dr.mansview

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What kind of men do women really want?

prolly one that acts like a man and thinks like a woman

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caterpillar79

Yeah, right! But I bet men would love it if women think like a man and act like a lady (on the context of wanting to have sex 24/7).

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WildChild

LOL. My Fair Lady comes to mind, with Henry Higgins, the ultimate self absorbed man, asking, "why can't a woman be more like a man?"

We are meant to compliment each other not conflict. Woman who have not been warped have sex drives just as high as any man, or higher in many cases.

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dolphinlefty

Don't even ask because we don't even know. haha.

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caterpillar79

Are women just like other men as well, who know what they want, yet once they have it...they just don't feel contented?

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OhThereYouAre

That's a personality flaw. Not a gender flaw.

I know plenty of women who love the "chase." I know plenty of men who love the "chase". The lose interest shortly after they've conquered what they've had their eye on.

I wouldn't say by any stretch- that these people know what they want.

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faithfulone

Moonisis... You stated in your post " I am seeing dramatic changes in his ways (which I hope to be consistent)... See that is the problem I think with men is their consistence is what bothers me. In the beginning they will try to move the mountains if you ask and in fact go above and beyond but once they know that you are feeling them it seems that they change. Why?

OhThereYouAre

Probably a better way to say that would be....that "the problem with men you have dated.

Women can act the same way. Every man who on this board got as much sex as they wanted before marriage, only to watch it go downhill from there raise your hand.

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'If you think you can or you can't, you're probably right..."

"It is discouraging how many people are shocked by honesty and how few by deceit..."

"People who lack the sense to question Big Lies always end up in deep trouble..."

"I don't worry about pointing fingers in the past...i operate under the assumption that every saint has a past and every sinner has a future..."

"Build the life you want and then find someone to share it with, someone who fits where you are and where you are going..."

Loveshoes

Hey now OTYA, that isn't fair...my dh has not seen it go down..well, okay, I'll clarify...once during our 20 years together for about a year. I had a procedure done...it atrophied my one of my ovaries and partially atrophied the other. I visited 5 different specialists and they couldn't fix it. I finally got some help from my family physician of all doctors and things went back up again. We are in our 40's and I'll bet we could give people half our age a run for their money...so as I stated...that isn't fair.

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blondie80

OTYA do you see a flaw in what has been written between the two statements? They intertwine alot! Women seem to give up sex as men seem to give up on romance so really it has nothing too much to do with getting married or sealing the deal. Granted some people do do this, this is also a personality flaw not a generalisation on women or just men. At the start of a relationship a man buys a woman flowers takes her out on dates and then when he has her that stops a woman wonders where her romance and love and compassion has gone and there for doesn't want sex because she doesn't feel close.
This doesn't happen with all relationships, and yes some women give sex to seal the deal to have a relationship and then it dies off, but some men also do the same with romantic gestures.