Thread: I need opinions!! Please help!!

that is how he "plays" with her.

he had dinner with her less than a week ago when he told me he was having dinner with a male co-worker. mind you they both had to drive and hour to meet for dinner.

i asked him to stop talking to her and he refused. Am i wrong?

Oh hunny, he just got caught out in a lie or three did he not? First he says, "that's how he plays with her, then he tells you, he is out with a "male" co-worker", then he refuses to stop talking to her?

And you asking if you are wrong to ask your "fiance" to STOP?

No, your not wrong... He is. He is for lying to you twice, he is for refusing to stop cheating on you, he may not have got the prize but he's aiming on it or if he has he's planning on continuing.

Sometimes this is a blessing, even though it looks like it's how do I stop him? It has shown you what he is like now, what he would be like married to you, what he is like.

He's dissing you... Just basically saying he can do it, so bad luck. Is that the way you think you should be treated? Seriously?

You snooped and we all say NO over that, for one reason and one reason only, if you can't trust the person you want to spend the rest of your life with they are not worthy of being in your life.

You didn't or else you wouldn't have looked.

Your intuition kicked in.

Now that you know... I think you know regardless of the ring, regardless of how long you've been together, kick him to the curb, show you deserve respect.

There is this saying "if you love someone, set them free, if they come back to you, they're yours if they don't they never were."

Whilst you sit and "allow" this behaviour it will continue and you will just be reduced to tears and low self esteme, whilst he gets his cake and eats it.

Nip it in the bud and say "fine, not a problem, enjoy, oh by the way? I would have worn that lingerie and I would have been open to what you desired, never mind you never asked me".....

She "must" be aware that he has a fiancee and not to be harsh on you, but do you wear these things? Because if not, that's what he's missing the lady in front of everyone but the tart in bed, so to speak...

So, you have to access if that's not you, then your not matched anyway....

But, having said that, no man whom claims to be your husband one day, has the right to do this to you.

So, time to take a hard reality call on him and call him on it by saying seeya. Whilst contemplating if your compatible as well sexually..

CW