Thread: I should have known..I should have left long time ago

Okay We All Know What The Problem Is...now...we Work On A Solution. Negative Words Against Your Husband Wont Fix Your Situation In Any Way. First You Have To Look About Fixing "you". Get Your Self Esteem Back. Even If You're Not Going Anywhere...treat Yourself. Take Of Yourself Cause In The End...all You Have Is You. Nobody Will Love You Like Only You Can. The One Thing I've Learned Is Not To Put Anyone Else In Front Of Yourself. Many Times We Do It For The "sake Of Love"...big Mistake. People Are Selfish. Many Times Women Find That They're The Ones Putting In Too Much Effort Into Relationships. We Give Our 200 Percent And Then At The End, We Find Ourself With The Short End Of The Sitck.

Another Thing...think About Your Children. What Do They Feel About The Whole Ordeal. After You Comes Them. If You Cant Take Care Of You How Can You Take Care Of Them? They Need You More Than Your Husband Needs You. If You Cant Sleep With Him "until He's Ready"...so What...sleep Next To One Of Your Children. Im Sure You'd Feel Better Sleeping Next To One Of Them Anyway. Maybe He'd See How It Feels To Be Alone When He's In That Bed Wishing That He'd Gone To Bed With You.

Good Luck And Be Careful.

I sure hoped she left him by now.

Kaylar is right on point w/the statements she made about how the abuser gets into the mind of his prey.

She left him before and even called the police on him.
I hope she doesn't look at his sorry, derranged face.

Take those kids and keep on stepping... you lived your life before he came along, you can sure live a life without him.