My update so far on my cheating husband

denise lyn · 02-22-2007, 01:06 PM

Well, I am trying to be strong and realize i wasted many years with a very SELFISH man! It has been confusing for me as my husband has tried to come up to me at three different times and try and kiss me. I backed away each time as he has not discussed what he did on the computer. NOTHING! No apologies NOTHING!

This man still is on the computer 24/7 when he is not working. This man STILL chats with that woman. My husband told me this the other night:::"This is your PUNISHMENT and SUFFERING you deserve"

I cried all night so hard wondering what I did so wrong. I was a good mom and wife. He told this to me last week also: "All I asked of you was to make love to me EVERYDAY and I WILL BE HAPPY". Well, obviously that was impossible but even when I was sick he would be mad if I said no. PLUS, EVERYDAY?

He was always on the computer never did anything with the kids or me.

Was I wrong not doing it everyday???????????????????

He said this lady on the WORLD OF WARCRAFT GAME starting paying him the attention he needed. Yeah right! She had MORE ACCESS to him than his family ever did....
What does other woman feel about this? Was I a bad wife???? I waited on him hand and foot I would even bring his lunch and dinner into the bedroom when he was online.. I did what he said to keep the peace. It is very hard still living with him. THANK god my 10 year old daughter has been a big support for me. She tells me NOT to take him back

02-22-2007, 01:50 PM

You should of left him long ago.
He was never there for you any way.
And sex every day?
Well, maybe if you have nothing to do and
are independently wealthy...but I take it
you don't lie in bed all day with wall to
wall maids.

As to the game...

Between me you and the lamppost...

My friend Lisa is in a wheel chair...has never walked...
she plays these games all day. She has this avatar
that is sexy, wild, active...and she plays her role.

If she's talking to me off the game, she's normal,
in the game, she's a wild sex goddess...

Maybe that's who your husband is in love with?
Wouldn't that be the joke...

jê§§ï¢å · 01-04-2008, 01:04 AM

i think my husband is cheating on me.he does not want anything to do with me.he is mean and makes me cry and he acts like he dont care...our sex life had dropped to nothing he act like a diffrent person and we have been together for 7 years and married for one.and also there is a girl callin his phone and i asked her who she was she would not tell me and also she said he goes to her house she kno's his name and our childs name i cant ask him until im for sure.everything we used to do and have fun doing he dont want to do it anymore. do i have a right to worry and think he is cheating?

**dr.mansview** · 01-04-2008, 10:10 AM

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Originally Posted by jê§§ï¢å

i think my husband is cheating on me.he does not want anything to do with me.he is mean and makes me cry and he acts like he dont care...our sex life had dropped to nothing he act like a diffrent person and we have been together for 7 years and married for one.and also there is a girl callin his phone and i asked her who she was she would not tell me and also she said he goes to her house she kno's his name and our childs name i cant ask him until im for sure.everything we used to do and have fun doing he dont want to do it anymore. do i have a right to worry and think he is cheating?

absolutely..keep an eye on him and keep a record of dates and times..you're not being nosy, you're being smart..look out for YOURSELF..he obviously isn't..

**Dragonfly** · 01-04-2008, 10:13 AM

Don't try and make sense of the matter. This man is selfish and wrong. You should tell him to get his own dinner and lunch and DO NOT WAIT ON HIM HAND AND FOOT!!!!! He is a grown man. He made his choice - He does not respect you - You let him walk all over you and treat you like ****. Stand up for yourself and start living again! He can wash his own clothes, make his own food. If he wants to live without you - give him a good taste of what it is like. Tell him if he wanted sex everyday, He should have treated you better! Another thing - Please, do not rely on your 10 year old daughter for friendship or support. It puts her in a bad place to choose between you and her dad. Confide in a friend. Your daughter needs to be a kid.

jê§§ï¢å · 01-05-2008, 02:34 AM

he has changed,his clothes,he works out all the time and never before did he..he worrys about the way he looks..its like i dont even kno my own husband anymore..
we have a 2 year old little girl.. i dont look the same..i up allnight worrying..he is alway talkin about his never working out us being together i love this man..but im not the kind of women to let this go on eather and i wont be walked on by him if he is cheating on me..then she can have him i dont want to have to worry about where he is for the rest of my life and being a blind wife..i can do better

**24glenda** · 01-09-2008, 05:21 PM

Hi i must say that you should leave him, first of all he dosent treat you right and plus he puts you down...all the time..you deserve better!about the game I Hate It! my husband plays that game all the time,but a few months ago i caught him cheating with a female in the game i confronted him and told him whats going on...at first he denied it of course Liike every other guy...then he told me...i left him...no dout about that and that was when i recently gave birth to our son...after a few months he told me he was going ot change as in not playing that game for a while.i accepted and from that day on he only plays 1 hour and 30 minutes everyday!!but hey if he is not willing to stop leave him...you could do better its NEVER to LATE!!

kilo · 01-10-2008, 04:02 AM

hello, first of all a man shouldn't treat a women, wife, or girlfriend in that manner. Get rid of the bum before he ends up breaking you down mentally and emotional. It's hard and vary difficult but you don't have to take this treatment.

Yes!! i am a man and i've been serving this country for over 20 years in the Army. You can do better.......

**dawn9800** · 01-10-2008, 07:36 AM

What is world of warcraft? I have heard it referred to many times in this same way :hubby plays all the time, wife finds out he has a warcraft gf? Im a little confused about this isnt it at game?

**free spirit** · 01-10-2008, 08:37 AM

World of warcraft is just an on-line video game that you can play with anybody on the internet.

02-22-2007, 01:06 PM	#1
denise lyn Junior Member Join Date: Feb 2007 Posts: 5	My update so far on my cheating husband Well, I am trying to be strong and realize i wasted many years with a very SELFISH man! It has been confusing for me as my husband has tried to come up to me at three different times and try and kiss me. I backed away each time as he has not discussed what he did on the computer. NOTHING! No apologies NOTHING! This man still is on the computer 24/7 when he is not working. This man STILL chats with that woman. My husband told me this the other night:::"This is your PUNISHMENT and SUFFERING you deserve" I cried all night so hard wondering what I did so wrong. I was a good mom and wife. He told this to me last week also: "All I asked of you was to make love to me EVERYDAY and I WILL BE HAPPY". Well, obviously that was impossible but even when I was sick he would be mad if I said no. PLUS, EVERYDAY? He was always on the computer never did anything with the kids or me. Was I wrong not doing it everyday??????????????????? He said this lady on the WORLD OF WARCRAFT GAME starting paying him the attention he needed. Yeah right! She had MORE ACCESS to him than his family ever did.... What does other woman feel about this? Was I a bad wife???? I waited on him hand and foot I would even bring his lunch and dinner into the bedroom when he was online.. I did what he said to keep the peace. It is very hard still living with him. THANK god my 10 year old daughter has been a big support for me. She tells me NOT to take him back Last edited by denise lyn; 02-22-2007 at 01:14 PM.

02-22-2007, 01:50 PM	#2
kaylar Guest Posts: n/a	You did the right thing You should of left him long ago. He was never there for you any way. And sex every day? Well, maybe if you have nothing to do and are independently wealthy...but I take it you don't lie in bed all day with wall to wall maids. As to the game... Between me you and the lamppost... My friend Lisa is in a wheel chair...has never walked... she plays these games all day. She has this avatar that is sexy, wild, active...and she plays her role. If she's talking to me off the game, she's normal, in the game, she's a wild sex goddess... Maybe that's who your husband is in love with? Wouldn't that be the joke...

01-04-2008, 01:04 AM	#3
jê§§ï¢å Junior Member Join Date: Jan 2008 Posts: 2	im new here i think my husband is cheating on me.he does not want anything to do with me.he is mean and makes me cry and he acts like he dont care...our sex life had dropped to nothing he act like a diffrent person and we have been together for 7 years and married for one.and also there is a girl callin his phone and i asked her who she was she would not tell me and also she said he goes to her house she kno's his name and our childs name i cant ask him until im for sure.everything we used to do and have fun doing he dont want to do it anymore. do i have a right to worry and think he is cheating?

01-09-2008, 05:21 PM	#7
24glenda VIP Member Join Date: Jan 2008 Posts: 38	world of warcraft!! Hi i must say that you should leave him, first of all he dosent treat you right and plus he puts you down...all the time..you deserve better!about the game I Hate It! my husband plays that game all the time,but a few months ago i caught him cheating with a female in the game i confronted him and told him whats going on...at first he denied it of course Liike every other guy...then he told me...i left him...no dout about that and that was when i recently gave birth to our son...after a few months he told me he was going ot change as in not playing that game for a while.i accepted and from that day on he only plays 1 hour and 30 minutes everyday!!but hey if he is not willing to stop leave him...you could do better its NEVER to LATE!!

01-10-2008, 04:02 AM	#8
kilo Junior Member Join Date: Dec 2007 Posts: 7	cheating husband hello, first of all a man shouldn't treat a women, wife, or girlfriend in that manner. Get rid of the bum before he ends up breaking you down mentally and emotional. It's hard and vary difficult but you don't have to take this treatment. Yes!! i am a man and i've been serving this country for over 20 years in the Army. You can do better.......

01-04-2008, 10:13 AM	#5
Dragonfly VIP Member Join Date: Dec 2007 Posts: 74	Don't try and make sense of the matter. This man is selfish and wrong. You should tell him to get his own dinner and lunch and DO NOT WAIT ON HIM HAND AND FOOT!!!!! He is a grown man. He made his choice - He does not respect you - You let him walk all over you and treat you like ****. Stand up for yourself and start living again! He can wash his own clothes, make his own food. If he wants to live without you - give him a good taste of what it is like. Tell him if he wanted sex everyday, He should have treated you better! Another thing - Please, do not rely on your 10 year old daughter for friendship or support. It puts her in a bad place to choose between you and her dad. Confide in a friend. Your daughter needs to be a kid.

01-05-2008, 02:34 AM	#6
jê§§ï¢å Junior Member Join Date: Jan 2008 Posts: 2	he has changed,his clothes,he works out all the time and never before did he..he worrys about the way he looks..its like i dont even kno my own husband anymore.. we have a 2 year old little girl.. i dont look the same..i up allnight worrying..he is alway talkin about his never working out us being together i love this man..but im not the kind of women to let this go on eather and i wont be walked on by him if he is cheating on me..then she can have him i dont want to have to worry about where he is for the rest of my life and being a blind wife..i can do better

01-10-2008, 07:36 AM	#9
dawn9800 Silver Contributor 100+ Posts Join Date: Dec 2006 Location: Mineola, Tx Posts: 265	What is world of warcraft? I have heard it referred to many times in this same way :hubby plays all the time, wife finds out he has a warcraft gf? Im a little confused about this isnt it at game? __________________ [♥]Jessica Dawn[♥]

01-10-2008, 08:37 AM	#10
free spirit VIP Member Join Date: Sep 2007 Posts: 74	World of warcraft is just an on-line video game that you can play with anybody on the internet.

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