Thread: lied to on valetines day!

I'm sorry sweetie. Ugh there is that male pack mentality I was talking about in another thread. He was willing to hurt your feelings to prove a point to his buddy that you can't tell when he's lying... without even thinking about how that will come across to you 1. That he has lied about something he thinks you weren't able to notice and 2.. that he is almost proud of the fact he can lie without you knowing (at least to his buddy) -- neither can make you feel good.

But sweetie from everything you said, you have a good man. He loves you, he cares about you, he sounds like he may be a little immature sometimes... but aren't we all? What he said and did was foolish, he obviously didn't think that one through.

Don't let him trying to impress his buddy ruin your valentines day. You deserve to be happy, let him know how you feel about the lies... if he appologises though, I think today's is the day you should go ahead and accept that seeing as how it was an accident, and he lied likely to not feel stupid to you, and then pulled this stunt with the buddy to look cool to him.

Bad behavior, but nothing showing he doesn't love you and today's about love.

HD is right, dont let this one transgression ruin an otherwise nice day. No, he shouldnt have lied about damaging your car, but how many people are really that quick to admit they did something wrong?

more importantly, how does your baby look with the new paint job?

thank you guys for ur input! it means much to me.
well after i posted that, i got up & walked out of the house, i can't think clearly if tensions rise to high so i have to get away to think & calm myself.
i went out called my mom got my frustration out & i talked to aaron's sister who was able to explain some of aaron's logical, which i know aaron well but she knows him more in some ways cause they grew up together. ne ways, i came back in 2 hours later, i sat down an explained that earlier wen he apologized, i accepted it. i believed it. it will take some time though for my feelings to heal & that i did lose a little faith in him. out of all the ppl i know he is then last person i ever expected to lie to me about anything. he has had something in the past happen to him & he was lied to & it hurt him very badly! i simply explained that the dent wasn't the problem & that i know accidents happen & that is ok. also explained that his apology was accepted i forgive him for it but i have to get past the hurt in time. so we r ok, but he knows that wat he did hurt badly & that it is not acceptable at all to do that again!
i'm still a bit upset but i know i will b for a day or two.

the car looks very good thank you for asking
before photo (yes the hood is rusted, on purpose. it's called rat look or hood ride, it is a style):


after (once my hubby gets his car done i can finish mine off with hot pink interior & hot pink stars down the outside of the car):