Thread: Cruel HusbandCu

[QUOTE=Marcella;170916]I have been with my husband for 5 years. Of those 5 years we have been married for 3 years. We have a beautiful 2 year old daughter and I am currently 9 weeks pregnant. I have put so much into our relationship that I feel I cannot let him go. He is desperately trying to hurt me and push me away. He has been texting and talking with other girls for years. He says they are all just "friends" but he knows it makes me uncomfortable. I have asked him not to carry on these relationships with other women and he makes it very clear that if I make him chose he will leave me. He goes to school full time and uses school as an excuse to stay out until 2am. Saying he is "studying". Now he has moved out because he says he hates having to "put up with me nagging him". He goes weeks without asking about our daughter. And when I asked him to attend a baby doctor appointment with me to check the progress of the new baby he said "No, I could care less". He says the meanest things to me and calls me every name in the book. He tells me that he would rather live on the streets than live with me. And Even after all this stuff he is putting me through I am nice to him. I love him with all my heart even though he is so cruel. I feel like for the last 5 years I have been spending my time waiting for my turn to be with him. He has taken trips out of town with friends and wont take my calls when he is gone. While I am here at home with his little girl. I dont want to raise these kids alone without a dad. I feel like I cannot go on anymore.

I wouldnt worry so much about it. cause the more you nag yall argue right? and its not healthy for you to be doing that cause of the baby and your daughter. So try not to tell him too much stuff.

Well I have to say I am so sorry for what this man is putting you through.
You have been given some great advise, Sounds like he hasn't loved you in a long time. One person cannot make a marriage and he told you straight out he doesn't want anything to do with the baby or children. I wish I could advise you to continue to work hard on keeping your marriage but it takes two, and he wants no part in it..you NEED to move on, BUT STAY STRONG FOR YOU AND YOUR CHILDREN..