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Reply With QuoteI've had some really good talks with my husband since my last post. Which proves to me, again, that I should just talk to HIM instead of posting on forums haha.
I opened up to him and told him how hard it's been for me to wait because I feel the instincts kicking in and he said "Well, you only have to wait until May." I've had to "teach" him a lot about the female reproductive system and during one of our baby talks, I told him how it can often take several months to conceive...so I guess that made him decide on late May. I think we did have a talk about trying a few months before August/September, but it felt like a "maybe" kind of talk instead of a definite plan.
So I feel better, not only because of that but also because I finally told him how I felt. It felt awful keeping that from him and lying to him when he asked what was wrong or if I was ok when I was having a hard time.
He also told me that he's really excited to start trying in May. So he's definitely not trying to delay because he doesn't want kids. I KNOW he wants kids and no one can tell me differently. If he didn't want kids, he'd tell me. Plan and simple.
I feel a lot more at peace now. Even before the whole "May" discussion. I realized I need to cherish our time together now...so I am.
Thanks for the support
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