Thread: My Husban Cheated on me

Originally Posted by susan_bryant

that he like to rub his ding-a-ling against while having sex with them.

I don't think i have heard dingaling since the third grade..haha

Seriously though, i am sorry this is happening to you. I think the answer is fairly simple and probably more obvious to someone who isn't emotionally attached to the situation. Your husband has not only cheated on you sexually..but loves another woman. That pretty much seals the deal (to me anyways) that it would be nearly impossible to maintain a relationship with this man. Does he even still love you? Do you love him? I hate the idea of divorce but this just may be time for you two to move on from each other.

First thing to do is calm down. From your writing you sound hurt and a bit irrational. Throwing slurs at the girl will solve nothing. After all, it takes two to tango, so your husband is at least at much at fault as her. Leave your house or apartment, take the day off work, do something unrelated to your relationship with your husband, and don't try to address this problem now. Things will look differently after you give your emotions a day or two to recover.

Having said that, if your husband was serious about being in love with his new friend, he has already made the decision for you. All you have to do is move on with your life. Get a lawyer you trust to guide you.