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  1. 05-26-2010 03:03 PM #1
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    hi to all i thought i would post an update on my partners desire to cross dress , i have discussed it with him in depth and although i am not overly happy about the whole cross dressing 'thing' he is adamant he wants to go ahead and start dressing . i have helped him purchase some clothes and makeup and he is going to spend a couple of days over the weekend getting comfortable with dressing while I'm away at my sisters , i know it's going to play on my mind all weekend but i guess i must take it as it goes , thanks to all the the people who posted replies before as i have no one i can turn too for help , claire
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  2. 05-26-2010 03:10 PM #2
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    It's always best to up-date on the thread started

    Here is the thread for those whom answered and those whom weren't aware.

    http://www.womens-health.com/boards/...t-problem.html


    The one thing I feel for you over, is that he intially stated "he never did it" but now he is "adament" that he will do it...

    It's kind of like, well like it or not and so you have agreed...

    That to me doesn't constitute a good partnership.

    Did you set boundries? You say that he will do it whilst your away, so I gather that you have said "not in front of you"?

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    whoops ! i should have continued the thread thanks for adding the link , i should have said in the post i'm letting him try 'it ' alone and then we are going to take it from their
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    Well, it's brave of you for allowing him to be himself... That's a good thing, but remember, he said he was "adamant" that doesn't really leave room for negotiation afterwards so keep that in mind, that love equals, compromise, not "I WILL"...

    Good luck sweet.
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    Hi Claire I just joined this site and read your forum. You can email me directly if youd like. Ive been in your shoes, Ive been married to a cross dresser for 40 years. Found out when we had been marred 4 years.
    This will not be an easy road for you, I do hope you set limts, because you need to go slow.
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    Rosebod, welcome.

    Claire may have her settings set, to receipt of posts as she joined in 2008, however, this is nearly 12 months old therefore she may not.

    It would be good if you would share how you felt / feel about that, 40 years is along time, obviously you were/are open enough to accept this..

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