Thread: So confussed

First off I just want to say Hello this is my first time on here Well basically me and my husband have been together for 12 yrs high school sweeetheart and everything he joined the military in 2002 and we got married in 2003 but every since he joined the military he has changed and not for the better for da worst i've caught him talking to other girls like on the internet and don't get me wrong i've done somethings too but like in 2008 I actually found out he was cheating with a girl he known from his middle school we had just moved to the town he meet her while dropping our son off at school how selfish is that he had the ppl at the school thinkin we were related to her and everything cause we were new in town so to make a long story short i left him and moved to my mom's me and my 2 kids we stayed there for about 2months i took everthing frm furniture, money , clothes, and one of the vehicles. But some other issues came up with my mom that i just went back with him so when i went back things were shaky but we ended up back on track as far as builing our relationship back with trust and everything still was workin on it so a few days ago i had been keepin his phone while he was at work and he got this godly text frm this phone number that wasnt stored in his phone so i texted back who is this and she said her name then i put xxxx? and she didnt respond so then i started to pretend it was him and i put baby wuzup and she responded baby where that come from and i put sorry i was trippin and she said yea right so i asked him about her and he said he didnt knw who it was i finds out the girl is another girl from another middle school he went too so i actually called and talked to her and she said that i should ask him was going on cause she already has a man they just use to talk a long time ago when they were like 12&13 and then she asked what did he say and i told her nothing and she said why is he not saying anything that just makin worst so before i knw it i was so upset the girl stays about 4 hrs away so dont think that they actually messed around so what i'm askin is should i go or should i stay just so confussed I really do love him but at the same time i love myself that i dont won't to be hurt but i dont won't my kids to be hurt and im thinkin should i just do me and don't care what he does and want until he gets out the military ?Don't knw i'm just so confussed.