I think he gets upset because you are showing an in-security, by making those comments.
I think that your ex, was lousy and so, you view this as oh oh...
With this guy it's more of admiring beauty of a woman and he married you didn't he?
With your ex, you chose to know about it but not "view it" and you have mixed feelings, there he was watching porn.
So to me you wish for a man who doesn't ever want to admire beauty in a woman because you felt horrid and in-secure last time so surely you can find someone that it's all about you, nothing to compete with.
IDK.... there are so many threads about porn over the past 3 years, my mind is going mental over it all
But, this is the first thread that say, well it's not porn, it's just women and admiration.
Shirt, I look at women and go, good for you, your gorgeous but I am not gay or bi...
I think allot, I honestly do is acknowledging your self worth, your beauty and being proud in yourself, and feeling trust as you do and comfortable that there is love there, totally and they won't stray, you don't think he will so feel it and believe it.