Thread: Default How do you deal with a husband who does not take care of his health at all

Hi,

thank you for the reply.

To answer your questions..For the stress part if there is something bothering him than i have no idea what it is as i cant seem to see anything wrong and when i do ask him (i have ask him many times) he just keeps telling me everything is FINE sometimes even gets angry about it.

Stress from pregnancy i am not sure but i dont think because we wanted this child..we have been married for 7 months now and since day one we have been trying for me to get pregnant so yeah it was planned..Financially i can say we are ok but one thing he is not organised with money AT ALL plus i can say he also have gambling problem which he waste so much of the money there and sometimes expects so much as he always talks about how he will be a millionare and so successful one day (mayb this is whats botherin him?) as in not happy in what money he gets right now which mind you its not bad at all. He was not married before me, no children also..this will be his first.

We have been married for 7 months now..this is also my first child and i have never been married before as well.

I have to agree with you..he seem depressed..extremely depressed in fact but he just don't want to talk about it or anything.

Example for his drinkin problem and the fact he does not care for his health at all, i have confronted him many times (in a polite, loving manner) but everytime i do we just end up fightin.he simply dont want to hear anythn i have to say about his problem and usually get so defensive about it...he will always tell me "i wil not have u or anyone tell me wot to do.i know wot im doing" and just ignores me completely..sometime he wil use that as an excuse of goin out to get wasted untill 5,6 the next morning,mind u that was since 4 pm in the afternoon..i just dontkow wot to do especialy with the baby comin. I feel so lost...If u take out all this he is a really a great, caring man.