can men be loyal to one women at all times??Anyone??

**hizenberg** · 08-08-2010 11:28 PM

I will define what i mean by loyal, Can a man look at his woman and say he is completley satisfyed and turned on by just his partner?? i know we all look at the opposite sex from time to time,lets face it its natural... i guess??But do guys look and think 'wow shes got a nicer than my girl!' or " id like her more than my girl that right now'?? Seriousley,its a thought that i often wonder,ARE men able to think of their wifes as the 'cream of the crop?'
I speak for myself when i tell you that when i see a atractive looking guy i dont think oh wow hes better, or i want his more than my guy, i look and think 'nice looking guy' no inuendos. like the thing with porn, do guys want the women more or lust the women more than their wifes?? Would most apprieciate guys comments onthis issue also ?? I just would like to know the theorys people have on this, please tell!! lol

**Mes T** · 08-08-2010 11:42 PM

This goes for both men and women... I think most people, who are in a committed and loving relationship, would never look at someone else and compare. They might appreciate someone's looks just like they might appreciate a nice... floral arrangement.

But it doesn't go beyond that.

**rcoreyus** · 08-09-2010 10:05 AM

Some can. That doesn't mean they don't appreciate the beauty of other women, but they don't compare and wouldn't be tempted to stray.

**rhiannon34** · 08-11-2010 01:46 PM

I look at other people, think about their attractiveness, doesn't mean I want to sleep with them or be with them. Mabye a guy has better hair than my bf, still don't want to sleep with him. Let's be honest, I know I am not the most beautiful woman on planet earth . I don't need my bf to think so, that's unrealistic. I don't care if he thinks another woman has a better butt than me, as long as he only wants to be with me. Now I'm sure that does that happen, I'm sure everyone has their weak moments at some point.

**dr.mansview** · 08-11-2010 05:05 PM

agree with all of the above posters..if i owned a porsche it doesn't mean i wouldn't look at a corvette

**Casey715** · 08-12-2010 12:46 AM

Sure a man can be faithful to just one woman. Do I look at other women? Yes. Do I desire them and want to have sex with them? NOPE. I love my wife. To me she is the most adorable and sexy person on the planet. Why would I even think about screwing myself out of that?

**herbie** · 08-12-2010 07:36 AM

speaking for myself im 100 percent loyal to my wife do i notice other women yes but definitly not to compare in anyway besides there would be no other that could compare she,s number one..Herbie

**PandaPaws** · 08-12-2010 06:26 PM

Originally Posted by herbie

speaking for myself im 100 percent loyal to my wife do i notice other women yes but definitly not to compare in anyway besides there would be no other that could compare she,s number one..Herbie

That is a great response and I hope that's how my bf feels. I also agree, that yes, sometimes you see someone who is attractive, but not for one second do I think that I would rather BE with them, or wonder what they're like in bed. It's just a "oh, they are nice looking." And that's it, no ill thoughts.

**hizenberg** · 08-15-2010 04:36 AM

Casey715, Good Honest Answer. I couldn't agree anymore with you

**Julietpinkrose** · 08-17-2010 07:10 PM

When men and women are comitted to their partners they will always think their partners are the best, both men and women do notice when a good looking person walks by, but it will never go beyond that ....

It is normal to admire a good looking person but when it starts to affect your relationship, thats when there is a problem ...