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    I was wondering what would you do if your boyfriend happened to talk with a couple of another girls over the phone for hours at a time even when you are there, and talk more romantic with them.. And when you ask, if he says "that's confidential"..

    Just tell me, what would you do..

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    He's your boyfriend it is only confidential, if he is single.. I would tell him is that so? If you want to flirt, play then get out of my life, and have a good one....

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    If my guy was talking romantically on the phone for hours to another woman in front of me and then told me it was none of my business when he got off the phone... I would not feel like he was my boyfriend anymore. Part of what makes a guy your boyfriend is that they are faithful and stuff, and talking romantically to other girls on the phone for hours isn't exactly going to make the girlfriend feel special.... adding insult to injury and not even explaining why I heard what I just heard would confirm to me that he was no longer my boyfriend.

    Sometimes people don't break up with words, they break up with actions... those actions would tell me that he was interested in other people and on top of that, he no longer cared about my feelings and was in no way trying to work things out. I'd have to no choice but to believe what his actions were saying.
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    What would I do? I would tell him to enjoy his phone conversations, because he's going to have a lot of extra time to talk.

    Then I'd leave and never look back.
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    What they said!

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    If he's truly talking romantically to other women, in front of you, or behind your back.........then love him or not, afraid of being alone or not...... I'd be out the door WITHOUT ANY doubt.

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    I'd have a threesome.

    Between your foot, his rear, and the curb.

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    I'd have a threesome.

    Between your foot, his rear, and the curb

    Lol. Nice.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Hopeless Dork View Post
    If my guy was talking romantically on the phone for hours to another woman in front of me and then told me it was none of my business when he got off the phone... I would not feel like he was my boyfriend anymore. Part of what makes a guy your boyfriend is that they are faithful and stuff, and talking romantically to other girls on the phone for hours isn't exactly going to make the girlfriend feel special.... adding insult to injury and not even explaining why I heard what I just heard would confirm to me that he was no longer my boyfriend.

    Sometimes people don't break up with words, they break up with actions... those actions would tell me that he was interested in other people and on top of that, he no longer cared about my feelings and was in no way trying to work things out. I'd have to no choice but to believe what his actions were saying.
    ^^Agreed. Any guy who would do that clearly has no respect for his girlfriend, and is also clearly not interested anymore. Definitely RUN from this relationship!

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