my husband is sick

**unhappy** · 10-11-2010 01:24 PM

my husband thinks i have slept with my brother 4 years ago he has this sick thought in his head i hate him for thinking this is there somin wrong with him im so depressed that he could think that of me

**kristalyn_04** · 10-11-2010 01:32 PM

have you asked him why he thinks that?

...wow, umm... this post seems a little fishy if you ask me.

**unhappy** · 10-11-2010 01:38 PM

its not fishy belive me ive had to put up with it for so long and now im getting fed up and depressed how can the person that loves you think things like that its sick

**stressed** · 10-11-2010 03:07 PM

Why does he think so about you?

**sourpuss** · 10-11-2010 03:22 PM

punctuation please

Anyway, what would make him think this?

**Beautiful Disaster** · 10-11-2010 04:14 PM

Does he have OCD?

Does he abuse drugs/alcohol?

I can't think of any reason other than some sort of mental disability that someone would come up with something so bizarre.

What happened to make him think that?

If you didn't sleep with your brother (and I believe that you didn't!), then why do you continue to be married to someone who comes up with bizarre stuff like this and then makes it his lifes mission to catch you in a lie so he can "get you"?? I don't get it. Why are you still his wife?

**unhappy** · 10-14-2010 10:46 AM

i havent a clue why he thinks this i really dont he says my brother was around all the time while he was at work and he says all sorts of things that are really sick it horrid like today for instance he was going round the house saying yes did you enjoy it. i dont see any harm in my family being round my house anytime why have a family? he hasnt got any of his family that talk to him maybe thats it ireally dont know all i know is i dont know how long i can take it now i have just had our 3 rd child and finding his behaviour and looking after a new born and 2 other kids really hard right now really getting me down

**Beautiful Disaster** · 10-14-2010 10:51 AM

Sounds like he's both emotionally and verbally abusing you. If it hasn't already, this WILL affect your children. I would insist he get counseling, or start finding a way to get out and make a life of my own.

If he has this in his mind, there's nothing you can do to change it. The fact that he has it in his mind shows signs of something very unhealthy in him. What can you possibly do to prove it? Nothing. Even if you took a lie detector test, if you passed he'd probably say the test was inaccurate.

It truly sounds like he has a serious problem, so counseling or leave. Anything less than this is going to be very detrimental to not only your life, but to the lives of your children as well. Parents often think they're took little to understand. Wrong.

**unhappy** · 10-15-2010 05:22 AM

Originally Posted by Beautiful Disaster

Does he have OCD?

Does he abuse drugs/alcohol?

I can't think of any reason other than some sort of mental disability that someone would come up with something so bizarre.

What happened to make him think that?

If you didn't sleep with your brother (and I believe that you didn't!), then why do you continue to be married to someone who comes up with bizarre stuff like this and then makes it his lifes mission to catch you in a lie so he can "get you"?? I don't get it. Why are you still his wife?

yea he drinks alot and smokes weed. i havent a clue why or where hes got this idea but im coming to the end now its effecting me badly has i think its sick and for my own husband to think someting so discuting about you.
im with him still has i love this man ive been with him since i was 13 and now 31 so i dont see my life without him but i cant go on like this anymore as he is verbally abuiseing me now. and i have 3 kids that love him dearly so i dont know what to do