Thread: child porn?

God This is hard to say ... But I just ask when I find things out .. But you know your guy and you know how he will be to you if you asked .. you could have a friend ask for you and make it look like yo do not know if you want its hard to know what would be the best way to do .. But you do need to know .. And make shar that you know it a lil girl and not just a women made to look that way .. I hope you have get all you need .. or that someone can give you somethings better
Bunny

Before panicking...ask.
This could be a relative's daughter and
the sick parents think she looks so cute.

You remember Jon Benet...'Daddy's little
Hooker', I mean the way they tarted that
girl up it looked just like porn to me.

My ex-husband was really into hard-core porn. One time, I found a photo he'd downloaded - the girl didn't look over 15.

After I found out my (now ex) husband was cheating on me, I kicked him out. Shortly thereafter, one of my neighbors told me she was "glad" he was gone. When I asked her why, she said he was taking pictures of her young daughter and friend when they were in their wet bathing suits. The girls were 11. She and her husband asked my ex to stop, and he agreed. However, they soon spied him surreptitiously taking pictures of the girls through an upstairs window (of which he had removed the screen for "better viewing") and our French doors.

After filing for divorce (without telling me first), my ex tried to play hardball and tried to get half of the community property - and half of what I owned separately. But I found some CD roms on which he'd downloaded some more hard core porn. Guess what? There were pictures of girls - and boys - completely naked, engaged in sexually explicit acts. The kids in this picture were just that - kids. I think the oldest MAY have been 12.

Needless to say, I got EVERYTHING in the divorce. Sick, twisted prick.

Watching Porn, (not talking about the one off, I'm talking about those
who watch porn as others watch football), is always a signal that
there's something 'wrong'.

Married men who watch porn are sending signals they are being
unfaithful. It's a coward's way to insure the wife knows that
'something' is going on without telling her.

Those who are into 'kiddie porn' are the sickest in the bunch.

I hate to keep referencing that Ramsey case, but could you imagine
someone sending your husband a photo of their daughter who won the
pagent looking like Jon-Benet....?

I'd take another search of the computer to see if it is a one off.

Originally Posted by Gia

To Sorrygirl,

Origionally, it began with her husband downloading the "Hard Core" Adult Porn for many years which is horrendous to begin with, then this perverted SOB became bored with this type of porn so he started downloading teenage PORN

good point. this is exactly what makes porn so dangerous.

too bad more people don't understand this.

Excellent post Gia!

Many women don't realise this. "Boys will be Boys"....
as if it is perfectly normal for a man to watch porn.
It isn't.

One side you have the kind of sick pervert who revs
himself up for raping children by watching porn, on
the other, the guy whose cheating on his wife, and
used porn to give him the extra push and now, (snicker
snicker) leaves it around so, (snicker, snicker) old
wifey will see it, but won't know that, (snicker,
snicker) I'm out DOING ALL THESE THINGS!

Porn is a Red Flag. As soon as you see it, classify
it.

The two women having at it, or a man and a woman...
usually hetero man ... more than one episode...
he's being unfaithful.

Teens and kids, he's a pederest, call the police.
Your husband might be the guy who raped that little
girl (or boy) down the road.

As Gia pointed out, knowing and keeping silent
makes you a co-conspirator.

First, since no one else mentioned this, I am very sorry that you found this and you must be in total shock and disbelief. I cannot imagine being in your shoes right now. It must be very difficult for you to think of what to do next, and to think about what will come after "next."

I suppose I would print the pics out, show them to him, and say, "What the is this doing on your computer?"

Copy the files you found onto a disk, hide it and don't tell him.

See what he says. You know him best and I hope you know if he's lying. Unfortunately I cannot imagine a scenario or answer he can give you that will be satisfactory.

Good luck. Please let us know how you're doing.