Thread: Husband Lies or something....

I have been married for about 2 1/2 years and in the marriage got pregnant quickly. Didn't plan it but it happened. I am finding out thing about my husband I never bothered to look at. I literally stepped into the marriage like a zomby and am know waking up. He is selfish, very flirty, secretive and at times so rude. I am so tired and so hurt and my hurt is turning to anger. I needed to vent so here I am typing away. I am speaking to a therapist and did take him to marriage counseling but he didn't change maybe understood some points but not much. I know in this world the only person who can change is yourself and that is who I am working on. I am a very funny women, beautiful and so much to offer and yet he sucked the life out of me... I let him now what do I do?

You've mentioned bad things about him. Is he good in ways that compensate? Do you still love him, and he you? I think a relationship without love isn't worth continuing, whether or not there are children.

What sort of things specifically has he done that are bad?