Thread: my husband hit me n i dont know what to do?

You have family and friends that love you.......right? And you know they'd be absolutely devastated if something awful happened to you. If you don't love yourself enough to get out....then do it for them. Because if you stay with this man, he will eventually do something awful to you. A year ago I sentenced a man to life in prison without the possibility of parole for brutally murdering his girlfriend. During the trial, I heard voicemails and saw texts from this woman to people in her life that cared for her that were worried.....she said things like "oh he just has a really bad temper....he'd never really do anything to really hurt me". That's what she thought. Until he ambushed her and beat her mercilessly for 2-3 hours.....until she died. I will spare you the details. And I don't tell you this to seem harsh.... I know it's harsh...it's the cold hard truth. You need to know that this man does not love you. Love doesn't hurt. And you need to know you're better than that. PUSHING you is abuse. HITTING you is abuse. Calling you names, degrading you, belittling you is abuse. You are being abused......and you need to get out while you still can. Do it for you and do it for the people in your life that really do love you.

Get out. Tell the police what he did to you. File a restraining order. Find a local dv shelter to stay for a little while (he'll know to check at your friends and families homes). DV Shelters are totally protected, he cannot get to you there and cannot find out you're there. You will find a multitude of people there who will help you plan out your next steps. It is time for you to get out of this marriage and most importantly, away from this man.

Have his butt thrown in jail immediately! As WC stated "you have witnesses" - use them and get him put away.
Just a thought here - what if you don't? You really don't want to see him hurt... so instead you just decide to get out of the abusive relationship (and I sincerely hope you realize that you need to do this - like yesterday), and his next conquest instead of being hit - is killed. How would you feel about that? Knowing you could have done something about it but chose not to?

I'm sorry for being brash here, but you are the only one who can do something about this - if you choose to ignore it, then you are setting yourself up for more pain and much misery. PLEASE, PLEASE, PLEASE don't allow this SOB to get away with this - it's not too late.

To caveat what I have said above (and Lord knows I'd like to say a lot more), I don't care what you said or did - HE HAS NO RIGHT to do this to you! period!

Let him spend some time in prison thinking about what he has done while he gets the stink beat out of him!
Oh sure, there is a cure for this alright - A lead injection - right between his danged eyes.

Honestly if tht where me id hit em back and stand up to him ask him if it "makes him feel like a man to beat on woman" i would make him feel like a peice of ing . ...lol sorry im just so angry right now. good lick and keep your head held high gurl

If he has pushed you around in the past and it has now graduated to the point that he hit you, it's time you made a stand, the next time he will all out beat you, trust me i know these things, it's a pattern this kind of man develops..

i've been there, (ok he pushed me, it won't happen again, he loves me, ok he smacked me, it won't happen again he loves me, ok he grabbed me around the throat, it won't happen again, he loves) we tell ourselves these things thinking it will be alright, it won't be alright, please, please leave him, don't be another victim, there are far to many of as it is, run !!!!