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    I'm seriously in a great problem, whether my wife is a virgin !!!
    I know she was having only one boyfriend for some months then they got separated. As per her, she doesn't have any physical with that guy. But first time when we went for a sex,she was not bleeding. Is it compulsory that a virgin always bleeds in her first sex??
    From that time I've a doubt on my wife. I think she has cheated on me.

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    I'm a virgin myself...but I have heard many doctors say that women don't always bleed their first time. the bleeding comes from the hymen breaking and some women's hymen break when they horse back ride or something like that, and some women have flexible hymen that may not break their first time.

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    thanks for quick reply..but i'm not only saying about the first sex but also every time whenever we are going for sex,she never bleeds till now. In our first sex, before intercourse, i was just using my finger and we were never into doggy style or some extraordinary style.

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    I don't understand what you're asking. Are you asking if she didnt' bleed when you all had sex does that mean she wasn't a virgin? The answer to that is no. If you're asking why she didn't bleed at first but has started bleeding now? Who knows, maybe you've just started having sex with enough force to break the hymen. Or maybe she's just "spotting" which alot of women experience sometimes a week or so before their menstrual period.

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    I agree with BD...

    I didn't bleed my first time, it's a "myth", all women are different...

    You married this women for love yes? Then with love comes trust, just because you heard or read somewhere that all Virgins bleed the first time, does not make that factual, I'm living proof to start with....

    Imagine how she feels if you have stated this to her or questioned her, or not showing her love?

    Go hold and hug and love your wife

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    It doesn't happen over night
    if truth were to be told.

    Like everything in life that's hard to achieve
    you must believe!

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    i didn't bleed my first time either , but a guy should tell if she is . my first boyfried always said i was the perfect size for him , well of course cause he was the first size in it , any size wouldn't been perfect even the small one.

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