Thread: why is it that....

It's the tired old... "I made the bacon.... You fry it up in the pan, serve it to me, do the dishes, wash my clothes, clean the house, take care of the children, Give me the remote, Get me another beer, cater to my every whim, make me feel like a superhero, tell me how great I am/look" Syndrome. Proceed with caution. If feelings of being unappriciated, neglected and overworked start to take over run away from home to the nearest Spa and have a ME day, pay with HIS money... which is really YOUR money because if you calculated the cost of a cook, waitress, dishwasher, laundry worker, maid, babysitter, servant.... it boils down to he doesn't make enough money to afford you!

My fiance is the same way. Except, what money I do make from staying with his grandmother and working a seasonal job go to bills instead of buying something for myself (whether it be appearance wise or not) and he feeds his cigarette habit. Plus, if I don't get him a drink or find him a lighter, he just gets his room-mate to do it because hes worked ALL day (despite it being either 2hours or 10 hours) and he just wants to fit his snug butt on the couch, play video games, and not move unless to take a wizz. I was talking to my fiance yesterday about a waxxing kit for my 'carpet' if you catch my drift because he likes it bare down there on me. And he just had a dull look on his face while I was talking to him about the product and I finally said, "You dont care do you?" and he goes, "Not really" and I go, "You're the one that suggested waxxing." I should've known better than to talk to him while he was playing his stupid game. Lol. Whats even better, is that when he plays the games he will light up a cigarette and forget it in the ashtray and it goes to waste. Thats not the funny part, the funny part is that he left alot of burnt down cigarettes in his ashtray last night and I went to dump the cluttered thing out and he asked about his cigarettes and I told him, "Their in the trash, where the trash goes." He replied with, "I knew you were going to throw them away," and I go," Well, if you knew that then you shouldn't have left them in the ashtray"