Should I put this question?

**blue_** · 02-25-2011 12:47 PM

Hi, CW!
We didn’t met on a dating Agency. We knew each other since a couple of years an then he started to talk to me a lot on the skype. I felt he was interested. Later we have talked about this past times and he called them “lost time” because he didn’t venture to show me his interest.
In fact, he thinks that the “fault” belongs to both of us. And I could say I was even more surprised than him.
He knows that the decisions to stay here is very difficult for me. If it depends on me, I’ll ask him to come back to our country and to live there. So, he knows visa isn’t my goal, as far as we are together. I even prefer to live in my home country instead of starting my life from 0 here.
Yes, it will be his first child, and mine too. He knows I love him. I show it him every single day. He feels really happy about it.

**CHANDLERS WISH** · 02-25-2011 01:00 PM

Then I think that your worrying for nothing

He sought you out
He wished it happened earlier
He moved you over to him
He knows you would prefer to live in your Country
His family knows and are happy
Your family knows and are happy
He is happy that your pregnant
Your happy that your pregnant
He knows you love him and he is happy about that
He believes in looking after a woman if she becomes pregnant
He says don't worry about the visa so that means he'll look into it

I think that you should quit stressing and keep loving

Marriage is a piece of paper, love is real

When he is ready, he will ask, in the meantime, "Honey, I am having dreams, and they are scaring me, bothering me, I can't fathom having to go back home and not being able to see you for months, and I'm scared that they will make me even pregnant", I love you and I'm scared, what happens?

Leave the marriage out of it...Your together, I'm engaged, he lives with me, we're together, and I trust our love is real, do you?

CW

**blue_** · 02-25-2011 10:58 PM

Originally Posted by CHANDLERS WISH

Then I think that your worrying for nothing

He sought you out
He wished it happened earlier
He moved you over to him
He knows you would prefer to live in your Country
His family knows and are happy
Your family knows and are happy
He is happy that your pregnant
Your happy that your pregnant
He knows you love him and he is happy about that
He believes in looking after a woman if she becomes pregnant
He says don't worry about the visa so that means he'll look into it

I think that you should quit stressing and keep loving

Marriage is a piece of paper, love is real

When he is ready, he will ask, in the meantime, "Honey, I am having dreams, and they are scaring me, bothering me, I can't fathom having to go back home and not being able to see you for months, and I'm scared that they will make me even pregnant", I love you and I'm scared, what happens?

Leave the marriage out of it...Your together, I'm engaged, he lives with me, we're together, and I trust our love is real, do you?

CW

I do!

Maybe you are right after all and I'm pushing things. I have to trust this man the way I did it until now. He already had shown he deserves it.
To tell the truth, after I took this decision today I'm feeling much better. I feel myself "in my shoes". I hope it continues this way.
Thank you a lot CW for the help!

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