Thread: Hi women,Need your opinions on my story.Appreciate your patience

He is Muslim an I assume has enough money to take a second wife. He has a child with his first wife and even though he no longer wants to be with her, the child will complicate things if he divorces her. You want him for yourself.

Marriage is a compromise on all parties. Are you sure that you and her cannot get along, so he doesn't have to choose? He already made a choice that you didn't like: marrying her. What would keep him from a bad choice in the future? Even if he divorces her, he is unlikely to abandon his son. That will keep him tied to her, or if the son comes to live with him, a stepson to raise. That son should stay with his mother.

Have you and her talked about relationships and being with him? She must know that he has another woman that is taking his attention. Cooperation and collaboration may be a way to make things work.