He only wanted revenge..so pretended to want to marry me..

**littleprincess** · 05-16-2011 04:46 PM

Yes, phones switched off now, your right, its got to be done, and iv put it down stairs so i wont even be tempted to switch it back on easily. He can beg all he likes. Maybe he still wants to see if he can continue with his dirty game...

Anyway i do hope things at my home calms down, its just crazy.. My mums persian and well she loves her screaming and yelling lol...it takes time perhaps..

And your name! Ahh i should have guessed lol, so apparent, well good on you

myself, born and bred in west london, so not so far away

**CHANDLERS WISH** · 05-16-2011 04:53 PM

He's 31 acting like 21, your 21 acting like 31

What, he thinks at 31 years of age he deserves a Virgin to marry whilst he sleeps with two girls at the same, time is he GOD?

Truth comes out in anger, and he's not worth the ground you walk on princess remember that...

Keep your head held hi, you are young and the man you marry will accept you for all that you are...

This man is a child whom is selfish, controlling, a lier, a cheater and thinks he owns people, you own yourself...No one owns you but you...

CW

**littleprincess** · 05-16-2011 05:12 PM

So true...i did believe it was all truth...how sick can someone get to just randomly think of something like that...it was always in the back or even front of his mind..planning and playing around..

CW , youve summed it all up so well..

Hes always been arrogant so he does probably think hes some kind of god..just pure evil.

Thanks sweetheart xxxx

**jns** · 05-16-2011 07:40 PM

princess, he doesn't deserve you. Take your time to heal and then find yourself a man who will love you for being you. Good luck.

**Hopeless Dork** · 05-16-2011 08:10 PM

Oh honey I know you are hurting but he did you A FAVOR. All the judgmental chauvanistic junk he displayed by not accepting you for who you are now aside... he also has proven his ability to lie, cheat, to plot a wicked plan, to take pleasure in hurting you... he's sadistic and sick and MEAN.

There's plenty of men that won't judge you for your past, and even those that raise an eyebrow over it, theres dozens of them that would never take joy , make a laugh out of hurting you -- that raises his cold heart into another plain of frozen.

You will hurt over the cruel joke he played, over feeling like you let your mom down (you shouldn't feel that way, by the way) some moms (and it sounds like yours is this way) has this vision of their daughter being married, and they don't take into consideration the kind of man he is, they just want you to be taken care of... realize you did NOTHING wrong, you are living your life, but you should not allow yourself to hurt over not marrying a man that would have found other excuses to hurt you and giggle about it... that is no loss... losing him was a WIN.

**oxy-moron** · 05-16-2011 08:20 PM

He will not have been using the engagement for revenge- this involves too much of his own family input and embarrassment.
He was caught playing two ladies. He could easily have another one or two on the back burner.
You are lucky the marriage did not go through. This would have been a lifetime of unhappiness.
Count it a blessing that you caught him before it was too late.
Good luck.

**emeraldwings** · 05-21-2011 02:23 AM

have you told his family about this?
cause that's not right?
31?
he needs to grow up some more!

you deserve better, he's not worth your tears.
be glad you found out before you two actually got married.

take this as karma with what you did with a great gift afterwards. i know you'll find the right person. it's just not the right time for now.