husband mastrubation
i have been married for past 8 years and is expecting my second child next month. There has been something that is bothering me and would request people to advise on what should i do.. my husband is very loving and takes care of me a lot. we ahve had a wonderful life together. but offlate i have seen my husband secretly mastrubating.. my pregnancy is something that i know might be putting him off from having sex.. but i feel sad and pained when i offer to help him mastrubate(which i love to do) and he flatly refuses saying that he is not in a mood and then helps himself in the night. i have indirectly tried to tell him that i know he mastrubates and he just tries to change the topic or completely denys it. I do not know why he is not being honest with me.. and i on the other hand do not want to confront him and offend him by creating a huge hue and cry of this. i just feel so incapable and unwanted. pls advice.
Being pregnant shouldn't be a barrier to the two of you continuing to have sex. Many times arousal is actually heightened for women.
Masturbation in and of itself is not the end of the world, but when it interferes with intimacy and the pleasure of both partners, then it's an issue. It seems it's an issue now.
Stress?
Fear of how life is going to change with a second child?
Money?
No matter how much the two of you talked, planned, welcome the new addition, this is now a reality. Realization sometimes does some things to people that we never expect.
There will always be boundries, but making love is so different, than having sex, let's face it. CW
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