Thread: Should I worry?

You know it is "ok" to have friends of the opposite sex. And, you are always invited I don't know if I would call it babysitting, rather, "being" a part of your partners life with those friends and enjoying each others company and that of others, doing things together.

And, when "people" collectively feel he's crossing the line with a friendship, then I would say he is because they "see" as they are outside that box.

Your husband needs to realise that temptation is real. And he needs to realise that being so close constantly with someone leads to temptation as well as disrespect when married to someone, it's like an emotional affair, confiding, laughing, sharing with the opposite sex, that otherwise, I imagine he's not sharing with you.

The deletion of text messages means it's not work related and that's all you need to know isn't it? Because if it was work related they wouldn't be deleted.

To close for comfort why does he feel the need to laugh, joke, confide, share with her and not you.. That's the question you have to ask yourself.

If you love him, now is the time to fight for him.. Time to look very closely at your relationship and why this isn't being shared with you... If your answer is him, everything has always been about him, then it's never going to change but if it's yes, there are things missing in our lives, we aren't laughing and dating, loving and talking then now is the time to bring all that back into your lives.