Thread: What to do if husband is addicted to porn?

Originally Posted by ms.donna

Grrr. Leave him!! Seriously....LEAVE him. Please help yourself . U deserve better

ms.donna on another thread you wrote this:-

I don't need this in my life, over and over. He still did it. So, one day he came home to me moaning and rubbing myself to two nude hot male porn , he was hurt. And finnnnnnaly understood. After that he was done.

You stated that assisted obviously in your other half, stopping porn altogether.. Referencing because you are not being consistent in your replies

WH likes to think it's family orientated, offering any form of opinions that may work.. That worked for you it may work for someone else, it may not work for others.. But reverse physcology can be a good thing..


Leaving someone should be the last resort OP, I can see that he will not listen but it appears that he doesn't believe it's an addiction, rather something he feels is harmless. It's not harmless, as it's effecting YOU.. I wonder if you were to state, to him that you feel that he has no respect for you, by continuing to do something that you are not happy with, and so, you are taking time out so he can re-view what constitutes a marriage of togetherness, whether he would think on it more and talk about it properly with you...I'd pack some things and go and stay with a family member for a couple of weeks and let him see what it is like to be on his own.

CW