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Reply With QuoteWhat culture do you come from? Would there be harsh repercussions if you divorced him?
It seems that the two of you had nothing in common to start a marriage on.
Hubby's alcohol n frnds ruining my wedding
I hav been married for past 8 months n hav had hundreds of issues to deal wid in dis period. Ours was an arranged marriage ... Gt two months break Ben engagement n marriage. After wedding, my husband used to regularly come home at 2 in d night dat to totally drunk. Wid time n me fighting over issues things hav improved... But most f d times I still hav to force my husband to cum home. He doesnt care abt me or my life, whether i m sick or upset makes no diff to him. He comes home to avoid fights .... He is loyal, but still wants to live d life of 18 year old nd hates d fact dat marriage has ruined his party everyday life.... Comes from a rich family so has thousands to squander each night. I m in a dilemma whether to hang on to dis marriage or no. We hav no bonding to each other n r still sticking around coz of our families
Last edited by Ppj; 01-28-2012 at 10:46 AM.
What culture do you come from? Would there be harsh repercussions if you divorced him?
It seems that the two of you had nothing in common to start a marriage on.
made one wish for a permanent kiss that would echo through these bones like arsenic
Women are female (adj,) but not females (n.) We aren't dogs.
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Who arranged this marriage? In some cultures it is the grandmothers who do most of the arranging, in others the girls are promised to the families of the boys from an early age, so few of the characteristics of the man each boy becomes are known.
I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
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Shall we gather strength by irresolution and inaction? Shall we acquire the means of effectual resistance by lying supinely on our backs and hugging the delusive phantom of hope, until our enemies shall have bound us hand and foot?
Patrick Henry
If you both really don't want to be married and don't have any bond and are both so un-happy, why not, whilst you work out how to get out of the marriage due to it being arranged, talk to each other and be straight forward about it and be "house mates" when at home and don't entertain the meaning of marraige for now...
Sometimes when thrown into things, no one is happy, but by being friends and putting up a front, who is to say you both won't start to be exactly that? Friends and who is to say you wont, start to actually like each other..
CW
Do we not realise that in order to find a soul
It doesn't happen over night
if truth were to be told.
Like everything in life that's hard to achieve
you must believe!
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