Thread: Hubby's Love Lust and Lies

Just an update for the ladies wondering what happened,,,,,,

We had a long talk after everything happened,,,, He accepted he was wrong, apologised and promised it will never happen again. We had a real heart to heart talk and the reasons that led to infidelity inthe first place. He was too comfortable with her and her being available to do whatever he asked, he took that advantage. He did not mean to hurt me,,but he did with his actions. She is out of our lives,,hopefully for good, he has expressed no interest seeing her again, though he misses her friendship, but he understands and knows wife, kids comes first. Our marriage/relationship has improved a great deal,, he reminds me when we first got married inthe first two years. He is very considerate of me and really feel a real connection that had been missing for two years.

We've had a more open communication about her, and honestly I miss the friend I thought she was. But he's a happier guy now,,,and am happy,,,,,, he does not have to deal with 2 women emotionally and physically,, he went back to working out,,looks good, falling in love again. He says he's relieved it's over and he's not living a lie. I hope it stays this way but will always keeps my eyes open.

Just an FYI - this lady is married,,,, been married longer than we have. That's why I never thought she would stoop this low. So even with your married friends, you need to watch out.

I am glad it worked out well and his efforts and energy are where they needed to be inthe first place,,his family. He is a good man and now that he knows what he could have lost,, he's thankful each day for this chance.Thank's to all that responded.

Just an update for the ladies wondering what happened,,,,,,

We had a long talk after everything happened,,,, He accepted he was wrong, apologised and promised it will never happen again. We had a real heart to heart talk and the reasons that led to infidelity inthe first place. He was too comfortable with her and her being available to do whatever he asked, he took that advantage. He did not mean to hurt me,,but he did with his actions. She is out of our lives,,hopefully for good, he has expressed no interest seeing her again, though he misses her friendship, but he understands and knows wife, kids comes first. Our marriage/relationship has improved a great deal,, he reminds me when we first got married inthe first two years. He is very considerate of me and really feel a real connection that had been missing for two years.

We've had a more open communication about her, and honestly I miss the friend I thought she was. But he's a happier guy now,,,and am happy,,,,,, he does not have to deal with 2 women emotionally and physically,, he went back to working out,,looks good, falling in love again. He says he's relieved it's over and he's not living a lie. I hope it stays this way but will always keeps my eyes open.

Just an FYI - this lady is married,,,, been married longer than we have. That's why I never thought she would stoop this low. So even with your married friends, you need to watch out.

I am glad it worked out well and his efforts and energy are where they needed to be inthe first place,,his family. He is a good man and now that he knows what he could have lost,, he's thankful each day for this chance.Thank's to all that responded.