Thread: Bisexualism

Why is it okay for to women to make out or have sex but we men can't try it without being labelled 'gay' ? I love women, always had women but I want to experience same sex out of curiosity. WHy should I be labelled gay because of that? I wish I could find a real woman who enjoys the idea. I have met some online but never had the courage to open up with some of my female friends. I have one who I was going to but then she started dating a guy I don't like so I did not wanted her to share my feelings with that guy. Why a threesome has to be with one guy and 2 women, and not 2 men and one women?

Why is it okay for two women to make out or have sex but we men can't try it without being labelled 'gay' ? I love women, always had women but I want to experience same sex out of curiosity. WHy should I be labelled gay because of that? I wish I could find a real woman who enjoys the idea. I have met some women online and have been opening up my secrets, but never had the courage to open up with some of my female friends in the real world. I have one female friend who I was going to have an open conversation, but then she started dating a guy I don't get along with, so I decided not to tell her.
Why a threesome has to be with one guy and 2 women, and not 2 men and one woman?

This is a direct repost of your old thread.
I don't remember if I responded to that one, so in case I didn't ...
Men get labeled because so many men are homosexual. People worth consorting with shouldn't label you. Gender shouldn't be a boundary.
A threesome can be whatever you want it to be.

Being Bi is tough. Homophobic straight men hate you. Some gay men hate you because they don't believe you are really Bi, but are just trying to be gay in a more socially acceptable way. JUST IGNORE THEM ALL.

The problem is that people only make noise when they object. You don't hear the large numbe of people who have no problem with it. (of course this depends on where you live - if you live in San Francisco, I assure you that you won't have a problem. Other places....)

That aside, arranging a 3-some is very tough. You would need to find a woman who is willing, and who had a boyfriend who was Bi. In my biased view of the world, I think most men would be willing to do a MFF thressome if their spouse really wanted one. Not so many women are willing to do a thressome of any sort. Not many men are both Bi, and willing to do a threesome.

There is some hope - a friend of mine was dancing at a club when he was propositioned by a couple. (poor guy was shocked - think he was in the wrong club).

Good luck. Play safe

I have been candor in my previous threads about my being turned on by watching gay porn. I would love to watch two guys go at it, or to have myself be involved (just one of my many fantasies) but i must admit i don't know if I could have my husband be one of those men. It's not that I would think less of him, or that I think it would make him less of a man...i guess i think that he may enjoy it too much??? does that make sense...i've heard that the reason that men do it is because of the orgasmic feeling that they receive and its different from having sex with a female....

But I don't have a problem with bi-men, i think its very kinky.

First of all I want to thank you for your posting. I like your nickname, and I want to ask you "where were you when I was single" ...lol
Well, about my posting, I am moving closer to open to my wife all my thoughts. I believe life is extremelly short, and out of our (maybe) 70 years or so that we live, only a handfull of years it is for our enjoyment. Lots of it is stress, worries, work, tasks, etc, etc. So when I have a problem to think, I try to think about sex. I get horny, I get closer to my wife, and it works fine because I later find a solution for the problem.

I have searched the net and I have found plenty of bisexual porn. Seems that there is a lot going on out there. I have downloaded some samples video-clips and I plan to show that to my wife. I will see what she thinks. Of course it won't be tonight, but I plan to do it in the next week or so. Let me share something that happened about a week ago. We were taking a shower together,and while the water was over my head and I had my eyes closed, she was behind me and she decided to play with my anus. I bent over a little so she could have better access to it, and she kept on playing. Then she reached my penis in between my legs and she noticed that I had an erection really hard. From that day on she keeps repeating that and I getting really hard erections. It is being very good to me and hopefully for her. So I want to tell her that I want something in there, like, a penis...lol

I am pasting here a link from a bisex website I found which carries some samples of videos. It is ADULT CONTENT - SO DO NOT CLICK ON IT IF YOU GET OFFENDED, OR IF YOU ARE TYPING FROM WORK, OR SO.
All the very best,