Ladylane
I'm a male cancer patients for 6 moths with 3 surgeries and I' in a daily treatment.

1 don't cheat your feelings are MORE THEN UNDERSTANDABLE my wife and I are struggling with issues as well. Your husband I would gausses is scared of not being a good husband etc also depression is a issues that offend follows chemo.

Masturbation is fine and needed, You may think of offering to masturbate for your husband.

Most of all I would say to do every thing you can to seduce him, Don't give up if he reject you kept trying. We men are visual If he like in in a dress and nylons then wear them all day.

He need to feel you still see him as your lover. DON'T give up seduce him he needs it.

Good luck my thought are with you.

Sorry for typos the med make me fuzzy