angry husband

violett · 10-18-2007, 12:49 AM

I am so tired of my husbands anger and lies. He has just gone too far -throwing the laundry basket and breaking it.He has broken doors and plate glass windows in the past and promised me he would never break anything in the house again.And he gets a little ****ed off and throws the laundry basket again .I am so mad at him .I found this forum but I have never writen in before. i feel so alone. help

**rcoreyus** · 10-18-2007, 07:01 AM

Do you have children?
If not, I'd suggest leaving now, this isn's likely to get better.

If you do have children it is more complicated, but I'd still recommend leaving.

**Fallen1** · 10-18-2007, 08:52 AM

I tend to agree with rcoreyus. You need to seriously consider leaving. How long will it be before you are the one he takes his anger out on instead of the household objects?

**JubesInquest** · 10-18-2007, 11:34 AM

You really have to think that you maybe the the next object flying out of a window, considering your spouse's temper.

He needs some anger management sessions!
There's a lot more going on with him than what you see.

**ordun'girl** · 10-18-2007, 12:51 PM

men!i really hate violence in men. ya' all rite. u should try and talk him into seeing a shrink.though u have to be careful when suggesting it to him. he may have some secrets he is trying to hide from u or something and he just may be using his anger outburst as a cover up.

**patricias213** · 10-18-2007, 07:14 PM

You gotta becareful. The next thing you know you might be the one hes attacking, you dont want that to happen.

**free spirit** · 10-19-2007, 07:50 AM

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Originally Posted by ordun'girl

men!i really hate violence in men. ya' all rite. u should try and talk him into seeing a shrink.though u have to be careful when suggesting it to him. he may have some secrets he is trying to hide from u or something and he just may be using his anger outburst as a cover up.

I wouldn't even bother with this. Suggesting counseling to someone as violent as this will only escalate matters.

Find a women's support group in your area. The phone book or someone at the police station can help you with this. Go talk with the women there. You will not feel alone anymore. You will see for the first time in your life.

I would suggest getting all of your paperwork in order, secretly. Move it all to a safe place. Slowly transfer clothes and stuff that is important to you that he won't notice.

Make plans now and stick to it. Things are only going to get worse, they will never get better. The violence is about control. He keeps you in fear, therefore he controls you and feels like the big man.

From someone whose been there, leave. Run as fast as you can. There is a big bright beautiful world out there waiting for you.

10-18-2007, 12:49 AM	#1
violett Junior Member Join Date: Oct 2007 Posts: 1	angry husband I am so tired of my husbands anger and lies. He has just gone too far -throwing the laundry basket and breaking it.He has broken doors and plate glass windows in the past and promised me he would never break anything in the house again.And he gets a little ****ed off and throws the laundry basket again .I am so mad at him .I found this forum but I have never writen in before. i feel so alone. help

10-18-2007, 11:34 AM	#4
JubesInquest VIP Member Join Date: Jul 2007 Location: MI Posts: 544	You really have to think that you maybe the the next object flying out of a window, considering your spouse's temper. He needs some anger management sessions! There's a lot more going on with him than what you see. __________________ Quitters never win; Winners don't give in

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10-18-2007, 07:01 AM	#2
rcoreyus March 2008 "Poster of the Month" Join Date: Sep 2007 Posts: 1,738	Do you have children? If not, I'd suggest leaving now, this isn's likely to get better. If you do have children it is more complicated, but I'd still recommend leaving.

10-18-2007, 08:52 AM	#3
Fallen1 WH Moderator Join Date: Oct 2007 Location: US Posts: 951 Blog Entries: 1	I tend to agree with rcoreyus. You need to seriously consider leaving. How long will it be before you are the one he takes his anger out on instead of the household objects?

10-18-2007, 12:51 PM	#5
ordun'girl VIP Member Join Date: Oct 2007 Posts: 42	men!i really hate violence in men. ya' all rite. u should try and talk him into seeing a shrink.though u have to be careful when suggesting it to him. he may have some secrets he is trying to hide from u or something and he just may be using his anger outburst as a cover up.

10-18-2007, 07:14 PM	#6
patricias213 WH Moderator Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: NYC Posts: 1,089 Blog Entries: 9	You gotta becareful. The next thing you know you might be the one hes attacking, you dont want that to happen.