I'm 35 years old and I have been married for 14 years. I have two sons. Lately my husband and I are not in the same page. He is masterbating 1 and two times a day. Yesterday we had sex in the morning and when I came from work he was masterbating. Is this normal. I sometimes think that he is having an affair. We don't talk much and he is avoiding being home. Is this a problem? Please advice!!

He's either just started "viagra" or cheating.

I don't see why having an affair would make him masturbate more. Does sound like something is up though. Does he masturbate when you are available to have sex with him, or only when you are not?

What makes you say that?

There's nothing wrong w/ your husband masterbating. my husband does it to and our sex is great. they say when a man masture bates it helps him llast longer.

yeah my man doesn't masterbate so when we do have sex it lasts about 10 seconds. It sucks and i dont even want to have sex with him cause it isn't even worth getting dirty.