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Originally Posted by ^RAVEN^
He has left me before many times,but like a prat i take him back,going to have to tell him there aint no going back next time,and make sure i stick to it.I agree when you said no one wud want him,prob the reason he always creeps back.We once split up for a month,and i went on a date with a new bloke,all i got was constant harrassment,until i took him back.Which i regretted doing.Dont know what his problem is,he behaves like he dont want me,but hates the thought of someone else having me.I was once thick enough to take him back when i found out he was messing about with some little from work rough as she was.I at the time had just gone thru an emergency caesarian ,with my youngest child who was born at 26 weeks,we were told she had a 10 percent chance of survival.While i was visiting her in intensive care,he was hanging around that tart from work,i knew something was going off because of his behaviour.so i checked his phone,and saw loads of photos of her.His excuse was because i was pushing him out,not surprising after everything that had happened.Its always been him,and his needs.  |
You need to leave him. NOW!
We can all sit here and tell you all the things you already know about how this is abuse and how you deserve better, etc etc. But you are the one who needs to take action to give yourself a better life.
Leave NOW! Please, do yourself and your children a favor and leave him.
Do not wait for a fight and for him to walk out to give you the strength. Begin planning today. Call and make arrangements for a safe place for you and your family to stay and do not let him know where you are. Don't make waves and make a big to-do about it. Just quietly plan everything out. Take out a bank account in your name only and do not let him find out about it! Take down numbers of any joint accounts or credit cards you may have so when you are gone you can get your name off.
Then just (without any drama) leave.
11-12-2007, 12:16 PM
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