myspace jealousy (sorry kinda long)

**misskitty3** · 11-14-2007 09:45 AM

Ok, I'm embarrassed to admit this but i get super jealous if my husband talks to this one girl on myspace. its only this one girl! i don't know what my problem is. we've had fights about it, ,mostly cause i would login to his account and see if he was emailing her. bad on my part i know, but we worked through it. now, as far as i know he doesn't talk to her anymore b/c he explained that i didn't like it.

why do i not like this particular girl? well, he invited her over (with my "permission") to study cause she is an idiot. my sister was also at the house, checking on things (which was my idea and also bad on my part) and this girl was totally hitting on him the whole time. being a ****** girly girl with flirtatious comments and what not. i trust my husband with all my heart but there is something wrong with a girl who knows a man is spoken for and acts that way. then she would call him late at night wanting him to come hang out with her, and he was like, "are you insane? no way!" then she would get mad. what a weirdo! they only knew each other from school, like one class a week or whatever....

so, she knows how i feel and how he feels but she keeps leaving comments on his myspace. i don't expect him to delete her as a friend cause he does what he wants, i'm not about to tell him he "can't have her on his friends list" i'm not like that. but why is she still leaving these messages?

i'm nuts, i know... but i can't shake this. i feel awful about it too since we have fought about it so many times and have had the "trust" discussion (on both our parts since i was being shady) so many times.

can anyone relate? not just with myspace, but anything else?

kaylar · 11-14-2007 10:08 AM

I know exactly what you are posting.
And from what I see, he is either playing blind
because he enjoys the attention, working up to
the affair, or is so ****** as to not see what
exactly is going on.

This female is never going to stop until she
is in bed with him.

It depends on you how you deal with it.

Some women might be rather coarse and leave
a message on her space as; "I know you're dying
for my husband to F*CK you but he says you
have an unpleasant odor."

This is nice to see in public areas.

The thing is to ridicule her.

Men like to be fought over, they like to feel
like Super Stud.

When one ridicules the situation it doesn't
have the same impact.

What works is if at some gathering you start
to laugh about it, and imitate how ******
she is, and then portray your husband with
goo goo eyes...

For example...

"Oh, husband you're so smart to know one
and one equals two!"

(And putting on a goofy voice...)

"A yah, I've got smarts, hyuk hyuk.."

So that both him and her become a comedy.

Taking her seriously raises her price....

**Fallen1** · 11-14-2007 11:01 AM

I know exactly what you are talking about. I went through a similar situation about 6 months ago. I do not like myspace at all .... although you can't blame the site itself, it's how the registered members use it.

My s/o had a couple of female friends that really upset me because of the private messaging that was exchanged. He ended up deleting his account (not by my request, it was his decision) because of how it upset me. These girls were doing nothing more than seeing if they could get something started with him. One of them went so far as to telling him she had just purchased a new mattress and that she wanted him to come help her try it out ..... and yes she knew he was taken.

kaylar · 11-14-2007 03:25 PM

My space is also where cyber w hores sell their wares.
Almost every day I'll get some kind of 'Hi Tamy wants
to be your friend!' with a photo of some spread legged
gal, no doubt snipped from some porno mag.

Make sure the next time he finds out the price of
these gals; cause they are for sale.

A lot of social networking has been taken up
by 'netwalkers' (contra street walkers)

**misskitty3** · 11-15-2007 01:20 PM

oh i know! I have had to warn my dad about those types of friend requests all the time!

i wish i could go off on her, but hubby would end up hearing about it and give me ****. not like he'll be on her side or anything, he'll just tell me to let it go.

i guess that is the best thing to do, right? if it gets worse, then i'll have to lay the smack down! i kinda feel sorry for her since she can't try and be friends with someone of the opposite sex without wanting their nuts.

!

kaylar · 11-15-2007 03:26 PM

It keeps them off the street.
Almost everyone knows that these women
are professionals.

**rcoreyus** · 11-15-2007 06:30 PM

Originally Posted by kaylar

It keeps them off the street.
Almost everyone knows that these women
are professionals.

Net prostitution is in a lot of ways a much better system than streetwalkers. Probalby eliminates the pimp middleman. Personally I would like to see legalization - I don't think we can stop prostitution, so we ought to regulate it.

C · 11-15-2007 09:40 PM

Regulate it and you would have a house on every block. Women needing money and women that are just plain horny. Once I went onto a AOL chat room to check it out. I had heard that they were filled with hot women trying to find men. I found out they were. Web cams came on I think you had to pay to see them. Some were running free. I can see why..These were just lonely women....Quite an experience.

I agree many are in for the money but I also think that many are in for the sex. Where do they find it? So many of the nice looking young men are tip toeing through the tulips with a boyfriend. This is pretty big. Women are bold because they want man. It would make marriages that are already in such sad shape be in worse shape.

It makes a woman look like a f*****g machine to satisfy the man. If that one was ever put up for votes, this kid would be on the picket line waving a banner. The words would not be pretty, but they would get my drift....

**rcoreyus** · 11-16-2007 10:04 AM

Originally Posted by CarolineWH

Regulate it and you would have a house on every block. Women needing money and women that are just plain horny. Once I went onto a AOL chat room to check it out. I had heard that they were filled with hot women trying to find men. I found out they were. Web cams came on I think you had to pay to see them. Some were running free. I can see why..These were just lonely women....Quite an experience.

I agree many are in for the money but I also think that many are in for the sex. Where do they find it? So many of the nice looking young men are tip toeing through the tulips with a boyfriend. This is pretty big. Women are bold because they want man. It would make marriages that are already in such sad shape be in worse shape.

It makes a woman look like a f*****g machine to satisfy the man. If that one was ever put up for votes, this kid would be on the picket line waving a banner. The words would not be pretty, but they would get my drift....

I'm not sure you would actually get any more prostitution. It is legal in Nevada, and in an number of european countries. Certainly anyone in the US who wants to find a prostitute can - probably in a few minutes.

It is just that with the present system, it is difficult for the women to get help if they are being abused, don't have regular medical checks, or regulation on what activities are legal. It gets tied in with drugs and violence (like any illegal business).

I'd prefer a world without prostitution but I don't think that is possible.

Then there is the interesting moral question of whether a woman should be allowed to sell her body.....

**JubesInquest** · 11-16-2007 10:38 AM

Originally Posted by misskitty3

Ok, I'm embarrassed to admit this but i get super jealous if my husband talks to this one girl on myspace. its only this one girl! i don't know what my problem is. we've had fights about it, ,mostly cause i would login to his account and see if he was emailing her. bad on my part i know, but we worked through it. now, as far as i know he doesn't talk to her anymore b/c he explained that i didn't like it.

why do i not like this particular girl? well, he invited her over (with my "permission") to study cause she is an idiot. my sister was also at the house, checking on things (which was my idea and also bad on my part) and this girl was totally hitting on him the whole time. being a ****** girly girl with flirtatious comments and what not. i trust my husband with all my heart but there is something wrong with a girl who knows a man is spoken for and acts that way. then she would call him late at night wanting him to come hang out with her, and he was like, "are you insane? no way!" then she would get mad. what a weirdo! they only knew each other from school, like one class a week or whatever....

so, she knows how i feel and how he feels but she keeps leaving comments on his myspace. i don't expect him to delete her as a friend cause he does what he wants, i'm not about to tell him he "can't have her on his friends list" i'm not like that. but why is she still leaving these messages?

i'm nuts, i know... but i can't shake this. i feel awful about it too since we have fought about it so many times and have had the "trust" discussion (on both our parts since i was being shady) so many times.

can anyone relate? not just with myspace, but anything else?

You 2 are newlyweds... why is he on "myspace" anyway?

This woman sounds like she's nuts... one of those "Fatal Attraction" females. He won't be able to get rid of her... I wouldn't have invited her to my house---I don't care if they "know" each other from school or not!

She'll be hanging around your house, sitting in her car watching and waiting for you or your husband to come out of the house; following you all wherever you go ... throwing a rabbit in a pot and letting it boil (oh, that was a real scene in the movie "Fatal Attraction") ... but you get my meaning.

She sounds like a fews screws are loose upstairs. I'd prepare to get a restraining order against her and take up some security measures in the house.

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