Thread: My husband and a female co-worker. Advice Please!

A whole range of things might or might not be going on here.

Are you and your husband able to talk about personal things with each other (my wife and I are not, for example)? If not, maybe he has found someone he can talk to?

Some people are very open to near-strangers about their personal lives - can be very uncomfortable to people who are very private.

yes, we have great communication. We can talk about everything.

Some people chat with their co-workers throughout the day to pass the time.
I've made some really good friends at work. I worked in a small office (5 people) and was in a room with just one other guy all day. We became great friends. I knew all about his girlfriend, he knew about my boyfriend, we talked about our families...etc etc. We've both moved on to different jobs but remain good friends to this day.

Doesn't mean we loved our significant others any less, or that there was anything going on between us two. Just that we hit it off well at work and became friends.

Doesn't sound like you have anything to worry about.

I know you can have great relationships with co workers. I dont like how she came to our house at 9pm at night and it felt like I was the odd man out when they talked to eachother. It felt weird.

Me being the non trusting person that I am - I wondering why she didn't bring them to work yesterday knowing she was going to be out of town and pass them out herself.

I know. I asked my husband the same thing lastnight. He just discounted my feelings and said I am nuts.

Originally Posted by Dragonfly

I know. I asked my husband the same thing lastnight. He just discounted my feelings and said I am nuts.

Well, unless he has given you reason in the past to doubt his word I would say believe him. Don't over-think it and get yourself to upset. I've been guilty of that myself.

It's possible it could be a case of her being interested in something more than a friendship and him being oblivious to that fact. I do believe that sometimes we females can see things that guys can't. We can pick up on the slightest hint of things.

When we were dating he cheated on me once. We have been together 15 years and married for 8. My father cheated on my mother and his father cheated on his mother. Its a touchy subject with me.