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    Unhappy should i stay or should i go

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    i am in this relationship for 8 years now.all we do is fight ,because my husband have this problem he cannot keep it professional with other women.sometimes when i am looking at the cellphone bill it's crazy.there is 3 phone number in that bill make front page news when i ask him about it he always give me this **** it's nothing wejust talking ****.it's killing me every month it is something .i am stress ,i am loosing my hair all because of him.i just can't take it anymore can anyone help please
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    If your marriage is making you physically sick, I would say it's time to go. Actually I would say its time for HIM to go.

    If he's married to you, there should be no "just talking" to other girls on his cell.

    Men and women cannot be friends because the sex thing always gets in the way. It may not happen for a long time, but eventually it will happen. Any female friends that he has now that he didn't have before he met you are probably not just friends.
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    Quote Originally Posted by LadyLane View Post
    If your marriage is making you physically sick, I would say it's time to go. Actually I would say its time for HIM to go.

    If he's married to you, there should be no "just talking" to other girls on his cell.

    Men and women cannot be friends because the sex thing always gets in the way. It may not happen for a long time, but eventually it will happen. Any female friends that he has now that he didn't have before he met you are probably not just friends.
    well i say the samething ,when ever he want to do something he do not care who will get hurt in the process he will do it.and he put me in a spot that i cannot talk to no man. we have 3 kids and mother in law come visit often u think when he is going out at night he would say i am taking u to the club with me.he would say i do not like to take my wife to the club i am sick and tired sitting in the house everyfriday night and saturday while he is out in the club.he is a control freak. for 8 years he been hurting me and still do any idea how to make him pay ?
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    theres no such thing as just talking .hes married.he has u 2 talk to.open your eyes.
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    Yea honey I know how bad it hurts to realise it, but you have got to send his *** packing! They are not just talking and if they are he is emotionally attached to these women in a way that he shouldnt be with another woman and it will only go from there. Again it will be hard but it has to be done. Good luck to you let us know
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    It's time for you to take the kids and go, or kick him out. There's really no in between.
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    you know there is a light at the end of the tunnel, trust me i know from past experiences..... get rid of him you and the kids don't need this stress. let me tell you i have 3 kids also and i got rid of my cheatin no good for nothing man and i did just fine. i now have a wonderful man in my life who took on 3 kids that weren't even his. trust me you can get through this.
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