You know CW, I distinctively remember you posting to a year old thread about a women who was upset that her boyfriend was on Viagra.... I did however post on that thread as well... but I was new then.

DAMD or how ever you spell it.

Yes, well seems we are all human

My husband also said it was fantasy and nothing happened from him posting on dating services for 'discreet fun'. I later found out he'd been hiring escort and 'massage' services while away on business trips. You have to listen to your gut feelings.....they are most likely telling you what you don't want to hear.